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    Hey Pua family,

    So I have some questions about friend requesting and openers. Would friend requesting random people come off as awkward? Also, what are some good techniques to keep in mind when opening someone who you barely know or haven't talked to in a while?

    The reason I ask these questions is because there are some girls that I want to friend request and talk to but I don't know them. The only thing we would know about each other are the people that are "mutual friends" and or if we went to the same high school. I could see the mutual friend thing being a good starter but how would you use something like that to your advantage?

    Thanks for the advise

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    Default Re: friend requesting random people?

    I often get friend request off of fb from people I don't know. I think it often comes from people that I do know posting on my fb and me having interesting pictures or funny status updates.

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    Default Re: friend requesting random people?

    i don't recomend friend requesting anyone you don't know in person, that being said if a really hot girl friend requests me i'll accept and message her to find out how she knows me or one of my friend, then i'll have a convo about our mutual friend.

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    Default Re: friend requesting random people?

    just dont add random strangers or with 1 mutual friend.. it will come off as a stalker or pedo..

    any opener would just be good, but usually an 'accidental' one can work better since they would reply more than to a guy which said 'hi'.. just make sure you type the right messages so as not to get friendzoned (unless you want to)
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    Default Re: friend requesting random people?

    Like bobbat6 said, don't add randoms you have no possible connection to. Make sure the girl you add has at least 10+ mutual friends with you. It makes her more comfy adding you and then after a few days you can try an opener on her. If she "doesnt know where she knows you from" you use the whole "i could have sworn you asked me to add you on facebook" deal. Just make sure you add a random hip location in so she thinks you interact with girls especially ones that could look like her or even better. Then when you get the crappy response from her like "wasn't me!" take it from there.


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