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    Default went on date year ago, come across girl again

    what do you think that I should do in this spot:
    History:
    went on a date with girl in 2008 (like my one date in the years 2008-2011)

    Recent:
    she viewed me on match
    I msg'd her (didn't recognize her)- not very good msg but meh, had writers block
    she wrote back answering the question and saying that we have met before.
    my play?

    date in 2008:
    met her for dinner (I think she just had a salad and drink or something), was more interrigationish/ friendzonish
    (terribadish performance by me). Have some stuff in common mostly professionally-wise.
    she's an HB 7.5 (she was then)
    was going to kiss close her but she maneuvered getting in her car.
    Not sure how obvious it is that I was trying to kiss close her (prob.
    semi obv. that I was going to try something, like at least kiss her casuallyish). I never called her.

    My play?
    There is some chance that she thinks that I rejected her but that
    might be wishful thinking as I was an AFC.

    I actually wouldn't even mind getting her in the friendzone if I can make that work for me with other women. I am kinda in a weird spot in life (32 y/o) where my friends all are pretty much married/ have a kid/ mega AFC &/or antisocial.

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    Default Re: went on date year ago, come across girl again

    I am in the process of date closing this girl (seems like mostly just a question of logistics). I just told her that I want to go out with her again and "wala."

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    Default Re: went on date year ago, come across girl again

    i am confused as where you need help? she agreed to this date? no just don't blow it

    bro tip - always choke the chicken before a big date .. don't wanna go out there with a loaded gun.. that's how people get hurt.

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    Default Re: went on date year ago, come across girl again

    My second post was to just say that I didn't need help anymore

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    Default Re: went on date year ago, come across girl again

    Hey I finally went out with her. First she was on vacation for a month, then I just didn't feel like calling her for a month, then she had to study for a big test, and now we finally went out.

    She is probably more like an HB7. I was having trouble properly judging her ass to factor that in, since she just wasn't wearing great clothing, but HB 7 should be about right.

    I would say that things went ok, once we were out.. She was shooting down my date ideas (possible shit test), and I had to maneuver to not seem tryhard/ AFC/ pass the shit test. I think that I maneuvered pretty well and did get her to admit to being very fussy on plans. Still, though, was tough, and ended up on a dinner date (one of my least fav dates, cause tough to PUA it in this setting) with her, without good ability to transition to different location/ do kino.

    The IOIs that I got were as follows:
    1. telling me that I am funny via text (prior to date)
    2. hugged and kissed me on cheek right when we first came into contact
    3. she giggles and smiles at me a lot

    Issues:
    1. Again, I wasn't able to kiss her at the end of the date. She just jumps into her car.
    2. Wasn't really digging her being difficult on making plans. Also, I had to change time to 20 mins later about 30-40 mins prior (after our plans got further clarified) and she showed up about 20-25 mins after the new time, no applogy or anything.

    I want to have another date with her and kiss her. Where do I go from here?

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    Default Re: went on date year ago, come across girl again

    she seems interested.. but she should have at least said a casual sorry on her being late!!!


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