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    Default Reply to :Are you saying I'm ugly ?

    her : Shut up! I hate u !!Lolol jk stop being cute

    me : haha i like you, too bad you're such a dork ! :P

    her : just like you you're a bigger dork than me

    me : impossible! cute doesn't go with dork! its the rule. Nice try though kiddo :P

    her : are u saying i'm ugly ?

    I've been calling her a dork as a nickname for a while, I never thought she'd over react and take it like that lolll it took me off guard

    Not sure what to reply.... maybe : " no, but I beleive that's called 'fishing for compliments haha " /// but it doesn't feel right


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    Default Re: Reply to :Are you saying I'm ugly ?

    Ok, she didn't over react. She's just playing the game, teasing you back. Don't get flustered by this, it's nothing.

    Ways to respond:

    You could use this as a chance to ramp things up a notch, lead things in a more sexual direction. From that short little glimpse I'd guess she'd respond positively, but youd have to make that call.
    Ex. "you're more sexy than cute"

    You could tease her back, keep the status quo. The fishing for compliments line would work well there.

    Like I said, don't let this get to you. She's only teasing you back, so keep playing the game. Don't sweat the small stuff
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    Default Re: Reply to :Are you saying I'm ugly ?

    I'm not sure sexualizing would be a good idea. I met this girl online, so I think it'd probably be coming way too strong when I haven't met her yet.

    i'm going to give the fishing for compliments line a shot, but I can envision a reply from her that goes something like

    : " Oh shut up ! -_- " in this case, i'd have to start a new topic -_-


    I want to eventually push for a meet up, I feel like i'm on that track but i'm not sure how to direct it to that from here.

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    Default Re: Reply to :Are you saying I'm ugly ?

    Me: No, but I believe that's called " fishing for compliments" haha !*

    Her: Actually I wasn't. *U call me a dork but said dorks can't be cute. So u called me not cute. Whatever*

    Me: lolll its just b/c you're more adorable than cute

    Her: -_- shut up I'm trying to be mad at u *

    Me: you sneaky you ... Lol I think shut up is ALWAYS your best come back ... Isn't it ? *

    Her: I just like saying it. Is that a problem ?*

    Me: Haha trying to be mad at me again huh ?*

    Her: Yes. .. Is it working ?*

    So I'm guessing this girl is trying to shit test me by trying to see if I care or would chase after her. Am I right ?

    Should I call her out on it and say that it's not cute OR just play it off, run some comfort material on her and see if she does it again, THEN call her out ? I'm thinking to do the latter.

    Thanks Bandit btw for the tip so far, I used your example and tweaked it a bit if you noticed.

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    Default Re: Reply to :Are you saying I'm ugly ?

    Don't overdo it. You're doing well; go for the meet up while she's warm.
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    Default Re: Reply to :Are you saying I'm ugly ?

    if she is really hot, it would say "no no you're more fugly"

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    Default Re: Reply to :Are you saying I'm ugly ?

    it's .. flirting .. move along, people.

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    Default Re: Reply to :Are you saying I'm ugly ?

    well it doesn't seem like flirting anymore b/c it seems like she got mad .... uh oh

    Her : Yes... is it working ?

    Me : Knock Knock

    Her : Who's there ?

    Me : No

    Her : Asshole... ( Maybe I shouldn't have used that joke ? )

    Me: my apologies m'lady I didn't realize you enjoyed being mad at guys... ( I was hoping she'd take the m'lady as humorous)

    Her : I don't. You're just pissing me off !


    Sooo damage control I guess ? What should I text back ?

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    Default Re: Reply to :Are you saying I'm ugly ?

    m'lady ... you need to get chivalrous in different ways - no Alpha male is going to ever call a girl m-lady.

    The ONLY thing to do now is no respond leave it. She said you're pissing her off , dont text back you will look needy. AND ESPECIALLY don't try and dmg control

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    Default Re: Reply to :Are you saying I'm ugly ?

    I playfully and I joked about called her m'lady instead of acting poorly. It's something that's often worked well for me, in this case I guess it didn't.
    I got it from Mr.M who wrote the book about texting and phone game, not sure if you are familiar with him. He's pretty "alpha ".

    Anyways, if all you other guys agree that I shouldn't text back or damage control... how should I progress things forward later ?

    I've met this girl online, So lately I've noticed on my recent news feed that her and some guy are getting pretty flirty, i have NOT asked her about him, but I've looked through their public convo and she's stated that she likes him. He's more of the type that is super sweet and nice and she seems to be going for that.

    It's only because of that am I thinking of being nice and sweet. She doesn't seem to still be joking about "trying to be mad at me ". Usually I just give it till the next day or after.

    What to do ?


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