Lets say a girl went to the bank one day and started talking to a teller and they seeem to hit it off. and the girl is the one that offers her number because she is interested doesnt work out couple years pass by and they for reason mangage to chat it up again as friends...she has a boyfriend now and the boyfriend knows she talks to other guys, even on occasion her ex whenever he texts her drunk and also so this bank teller dude is starting to be a real concern...she knew i cheated and starrted checking my phone rarely but the last time she did i said you know what let me check your phone then! (half joking wasnt going to but when i saw this guys name i clicked on it and she went crazy. i know i shouldnt have checked but i did. and she said we should hang out blah blah blah....indicating maybe not interest but that she want to 'hango out' when i told her to come clean she admitted he is the only guy she flirts with and that they hung out a month ago but that it wasnt alone it was with his friends. i broke up with her, i love this girl, but i feel like this among other things is a red flag.i need your opinion.
thanks in advanced.