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    Default Re: The eternal texter - but she won't ever meet up with me

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    Keep her as a text buddy to keep your game sharp.
    Experiment with different ideas, using her as the guinea pig.

    Also- completely stop asking her to meet up.
    THAT might get her attention to where she actually starts "SERIOUSLY" trying to get you to go out with HER.

    (At which point, it'll be up to you whether or not you feel like making the time.)


    When you do a 180 like that & shut down the interest, girls notice & they "need to" find out why.

    LOL!
    I dig the idea of shutting her down, that should definitely pique her interest.

    Not sure about using her as a guinea pig, though. Yes, it will help with text game, but if it's not good enough to get her to meet up, then how will I know it'll work with other girls?

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    Default Re: The eternal texter - but she won't ever meet up with me

    Quote Originally Posted by Lex S View Post
    I dig the idea of shutting her down, that should definitely pique her interest.

    Not sure about using her as a guinea pig, though. Yes, it will help with text game, but if it's not good enough to get her to meet up, then how will I know it'll work with other girls?
    I think using this as practice is wise...some gals respond to all sorts of things...unexpected too. For example...i called out a gal and told her to never contact me again (massive flake via text and email and I was done with her)....POOF...she calls me and shows interest. Now I know with her that works. I'll store that knowledge away when I meet someone else like her again. Put it in my notebook.

    Another example...a gal who i've hooked up with before, if i get suggestive at all about sex again she shuts down...but if i work all other topics, she brings up having sex. Now I know what to do with her type.

    The point is that to practice your skills, you need someone to do it with...might as well be this one.

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    Default Re: The eternal texter - but she won't ever meet up with me

    Yeah, I actually tried a variation of the shut-down on this girl recently. I hadn't heard from her in a month or 2, and figured she was history. But last weekend I got a text from her talking about a website we both like. I just responded back "Hah hah, that's funny. Who is this, by the way?", acting like I lost her number or deleted it. I never heard back from her, so it's possible I got rid of her for good. I've learned in the past couple months since posting this that any girl that wastes my time isn't worth it. The quicker I get rid of someone like her, the better off I am.

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    Default Re: The eternal texter - but she won't ever meet up with me

    Damn I'm glad I read this early into my texting with this chick. I'm having the exact same problem lol. Except this chick has a boyfriend, she really likes me and all that but she can't bare to cheat on her boyfriend...again. lol I'll just keep this girl in my pocket till she either breaks up with her boyfriend or when I start ignoring her a little longer she won't be able to resist to meet up.

    Did you ever think this chick had a boyfriend?

    Sometimes I just want to say "My house. Hot tub. Bang. No excuses"

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    Default Re: The eternal texter - but she won't ever meet up with me

    Quote Originally Posted by PHILTHY View Post
    Damn I'm glad I read this early into my texting with this chick. I'm having the exact same problem lol. Except this chick has a boyfriend, she really likes me and all that but she can't bare to cheat on her boyfriend...again. lol I'll just keep this girl in my pocket till she either breaks up with her boyfriend or when I start ignoring her a little longer she won't be able to resist to meet up.

    Did you ever think this chick had a boyfriend?

    Sometimes I just want to say "My house. Hot tub. Bang. No excuses"
    My advice is to keep her as a back-up. If you wow her now, then chances are she may come your way if she breaks up with her bf. I'm all about avoiding drama, so that means only messing with single chicks.

    I have wondered if the chick I was texting had a boyfriend, but since we made out and she was constantly texting me I'm just going to assume she's single.

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    Default Re: The eternal texter - but she won't ever meet up with me

    Quote Originally Posted by Lex S View Post
    My advice is to keep her as a back-up. If you wow her now, then chances are she may come your way if she breaks up with her bf. I'm all about avoiding drama, so that means only messing with single chicks.

    I have wondered if the chick I was texting had a boyfriend, but since we made out and she was constantly texting me I'm just going to assume she's single.
    Lol don't be too sure man. I've met plenty of girls that's told me they've been involved after hooking up. It's always what the girl is lacking is what you have to offer is attractive. In my case a rockin body and willingness to bang her. Which she is lacking right now from her current bf lol. But yeah I totally agree with not interfering.


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