So the back story - About a month ago I went to a bar with a friend, and we ended up hanging out with a group of girls. I found out the cutest one grew up a few towns over from me, and we connected on that. We ended up doing some dancing and some making out, and she was really comfortable with a lot of physical contact. I got her number, and the next morning I woke up to a text from her saying she had a great time meeting me.
I figured this was a done deal, so I got back to her later in the day or the day after, and she suddenly went cold. As part of my flirting technique I use a lot of negs, as well as cocky humor - I'm a student of stand-up comedy, and take inspiration from guys like Louis CK, Jim Norton, and Artie Lange. But what surprised me is that whenever I dropped a neg, she'd hit me back HARD with another. It was getting hard to keep up.
What also bugged me is that at first she was constantly asking me to meet up, then suddenly she'd change her plans, or have to work late, or she'd be "omgz so tired". If I asked her out, she'd either be out of town or have plans. I chalked it up to her being busy, but it seems like she has zero free time. I tried ignoring her, but once every couple of days she'll send me a text, sometimes outright asking to meet up. But of course once we work on the details of meeting up, she goes cold. Yet she still keeps coming back. It's absolutely frustrating how she shows interest and has no problem texting me, but it's like she's allergic to seeing me in person.
Today she texted me saying she was sort of near where I live at a doctor's appointment. I began to joke around with her, asking if she'll get a Cinderella band aid when she gets her booster shot, and asking if she can pick me up a lollipop when she's done. A friend of mine works at that place, so I told her I texted him and told him to watch out for her, because she's bad news. This seemed to keep her more interested. I then told her that I'm a doctor in my spare time, and in order to be fully cured she needs to have a follow up consultation with Dr. Lex in a local apothecary (AKA bar). I told her when I was "free for appointments", and she seemed genuinely more enthused than usual. But I can't help but feel that she'll once again have some excuse, yet still keep texting me every few days.
Have you guys ever encountered someone like this? What did you do? Is she even worth pursuing, or should I just cut her loose? If I do cut her loose, should I tell her, or just block her without her knowing?