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    Default Pretty Sure- Absolute Fail

    So. Chick I knew in high school, but just recently caught up with on facebook texts me while I'm working last night. I, knowing the kinda chick she used to be, assumed she was trying to use me as a booty call. Here's how the convo went, any advice on how to salvage?

    Her- Hey
    Me- Hey you. What's up?
    Her- Nm just got home from the bars u?
    Me- Just hangin here at work, bored out of my mind.
    Her- O lame
    Her- If u were with me it wouldn't be lame
    (SIDENOTE: Figured here, drunk text+last response, I was set, right?)
    Me- Oh really, now?
    Her- Of course.
    Me- See, that's just not fair. Now, you've got me wanting to leave work miss.
    (Annnnnnd, where I assume it failed, so not much else after this
    Her - ...And whys that
    Me- Cause I could use a little less lame tonight, lol.
    (Where it ended, cauuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuse- I apparently suck at this.)


    Anything I could've, or should've said to get this going(Or how to salvage the situation now?)? I know she's been into me before, she actually asked me to take her out in the past- I never text her first, I let her initiate all conversation.

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    Default Re: Pretty Sure- Absolute Fail

    First off, it seems like you're talking to her like I would to a FRIEND. Nothing wrong with that, except you're trying to sex her. I probably wouldn't have mentioned that you were 'bored' but her response was great ~ almost inviting.

    In response to *Her-If u were with me it wouldn't be lame
    (direct)ME: If I was with you, you'd be naked
    or
    (indirect)ME: ...And why's that

    Next time, don't use 'Hey', just say 'what's up?'. Don't say you're doing something lame because it dlv. Instead, go do something ineteresting and text her back when you're in a better mood, or you could have addressed the fact that she was out at the bars ~ go cocky/funny "Bars? Are you even old enough to buy cigarettes?"

    When you text, you want to strike some type of emotion ~ ANY emotion is better than NO emotion. There's a lot of good 'text rules' threads on this forum ~ just search for them!
    Success or fail; everything you try can be chalked up as a learning experience~

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    Default Re: Pretty Sure- Absolute Fail

    Smooth giving more great advice !

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    Default Re: Pretty Sure- Absolute Fail

    If she was drunk...she might night remember the whole texting...and next day might no be in the mood to continue the texting convo. I try to avoid gaming girls when they are really drunk...unless you are looking for a One Night Stand!

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    Mick1869 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Pretty Sure- Absolute Fail

    Nah, she texted me today. It's definitely on, now.

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    Default Re: Pretty Sure- Absolute Fail

    Right one, Mick! Forgetfulness can be considered patience sometimes haha!
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    Default Re: Pretty Sure- Absolute Fail

    Alright.

    So, ended up sleeping through the actual date.

    BUT

    Recovered(Long, kind of funny story, but that's for another time and place) took her out for drinks, toyed with her a bit-

    Got the green light to stay over, but turned it down, because it turns out, she knows my reputation as a player annnnnnnnnnnd declining on the first date usually means I'll get it more than once.

    You guys think I did ok on the actual setup? She wants to go out again, 'very soon'. Also, oddly enough, after getting to know this girl more- She might be relationship material, which is another reason I bowed out from the invite for the night.



    -Mick

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    Default Re: Pretty Sure- Absolute Fail

    If she likes you...be romantic and work her emotions and be elusive when you are not together. Give her the gift of missing you. No girl can defend herself from her own emotions! Capture her heart "Mind" and her body will be giving to you in a silver plate!

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    Default Re: Pretty Sure- Absolute Fail

    Pretty sure she's hooked now. Regardless of what happens, though- I've got 6 weeks till I'm out of this state- and who knows what'll happen after that. Aim of the game right now is to close this one, and see if there's any emotions afterwards.

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    Default Re: Pretty Sure- Absolute Fail

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

    you need to check this out, never send a boring text again!!!!


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