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    Default Texting Shit tests HELP !

    Ok I went out with this girl 3 or 4 times.. I know she was into me, and we had tons of Kino, but I never went for the K-close..I guess she lost attraction..


    -THIS Girl wants to be a model/Actress.. -


    So one day I get home, and start texting her about a party where i met models, producers, etc..and i got no response.

    Then after a while i said this:

    Me: "Wish you had come with me but you are probably having way too much fun on your own.. "

    No response..

    A week later i text:

    Me: "Are you okay?"

    No response:


    Then about 5 hours later I text:

    Me: "I guess not... Going salsa dancing with friends ! Good luck catching a millionaire skateboarder"

    Eight minutes later She then texted me back:

    HER: "Aha ok and you are a super top model"

    HER: "Anorexic and always upset"


    EDIT: I responded to that just now.

    Me: "Thank you. I didn't know you were a Poet"


    Are those angry text messages she's sending ? or some kind of Sh1t Test?

    What should I text her back ??


    Some advice/opinions would be great.

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    Default Re: Texting Shit tests HELP !

    Girls actually resent a guy that doesn't behave like a man and makes the first move. So just go for it...if you see ioi's....I rather be rejected than have blue balls!

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    Default Re: Texting Shit tests HELP !

    hey bro, the thing is i wasn't that attracted to her, so I never made the move..Also my game has gotten better with experience.

    If i went out with her I would have no problem going for it. Just now I wrote her a text saying.

    "Thank you. I didn't know you were a poet."

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    Default Re: Texting sh1t tests HELP !

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Ok I went out with this girl 3 or 4 times.. I know she was into me, and we had tons of Kino, but I never went for the K-close..I guess she lost attraction..


    -THIS Girl wants to be a model/Actress.. -


    So one day I get home, and start texting her about a party where i met models, producers, etc..and i got no response.

    Then after a while i said this:

    "Wish you had come with me but you are probably having way too much fun on your own.. "

    No response..

    A week later i text:

    "Are you okay?"

    No response:


    Then about 5 hours later I text:

    "I guess not...Going salsa dancing with friends ! Good luck catching a millionaire skateboarder"

    Eight minutes later She then texted me back:

    HER: "Aha ok and you are a super top model"

    HER: "Anorexic and always upset"



    Are those angry text messages she's sending ? or some kind of Sh1t Test?
    Not necessarily a "test"....
    She's reacting / responding to your unfair & disrespectful text, about the "millionaire skateboarder".

    Believe it or not, you started this one yourself.

    She's dishing it right back at you, just as hard & heavy as you gave it to her.

    So, your ONLY hope here is to give her props for giving the comeback. You need to seem unaffected..

    Example: "LOL! Touche' I'm impressed. You're almost as feisty as I thought you could be. I'm buying drinks next time! "

    This type of message makes her feel like she just qualified herself to you. Almost like you were waiting for her to finally meet YOUR requirements, & she passed YOUR test.
    (Flipping the script)

    Don't act like she fazed you at all... Just acknowledge her comment & accept it... then turn it into a playful banter. That puts YOU in control again, & she'll be shocked that you didn't crumble.

    THAT my friend, is what turns women on!

    (and NO... buying her drinks AFTER she qualifies herself is NOT "beta".)



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    Default Re: Texting Shit tests HELP !

    Thanks man..but I just texted her.


    "Thank you. I didn't know you were a poet"


    The reason I made the millionaire skateboarder comment was because I wanted to get a reaction from her.

    She basically froze me out for a week.

    I heard that if you want to get the girl you sometimes have to be willing to risk losing her.

    Now I'm just testing the waters here. If i never see her again i'll be fine.


    You think I should text her something different after that text i made?

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    Default Re: Texting sh1t tests HELP !

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Thanks man..but I just texted her.


    "Thank you. I didn't know you were a poet"


    The reason I made the millionaire skateboarder comment was because I wanted to get a reaction from her.

    She basically froze me out for a week.

    I heard that if you want to get the girl you sometimes have to be willing to risk losing her.

    Now I'm just testing the waters here. If i never see her again i'll be fine.


    You think I should text her something different after that text i made?
    You shouldn't have to be the one to "get a reaction" out of her. That's my point.
    Doing that made you seem affected by her non-responsiveness.

    The best way to handle girls like that, is to limit contact, BUT without being afraid of initiating contact after a period of time.

    If it goes 1 or 2 weeks, who cares?
    When you DO re-initiate, never take a "cyber punch" at her for not responding.

    ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS be upbeat & playful.
    Show a positive attitude.
    Act like you didn't even notice she hasn't responded.

    When you do or say something to attack her personally/emotionally.... and I mean ANYTHING accusatory at all; you're not helping yourself.

    I personally learned this recently (As in, the last few months, and looking back at my last marriage / dealing with my ex.)

    Since then, I've had encountered several of the SAME types of things with girls I've been going out with.
    But the difference is; NOW I know how to handle it & how to respond.

    Instead of "trying to get a rise/response/reaction" out of her, I just didn't give a crap if she was answering my texts or not.

    THEN... when she was used to getting my little "text updates"?.... They suddenly stopped!

    What do you suppose happened then?
    Like when there was NOTHING from me?

    Here's the answer- (After scrolling through my text archives to find the convo)

    She texts me: "Hey you! Where ya been?"

    Me: (Immediately by the way!!): "Ummm the same place I've been for the past few weeks. What's wrong witchoo girl?? haha!!

    *SIDE NOTE** YEAH, that's right!! I texted her back within a minute!!! Even after a few weeks of her NOT responding.... You gotta problem with that!!!??**

    Anyway, continuing....

    Her: Nothing I'm fine I promise. I just haven't heard from you in a while?

    Instert red flag!!

    ME: "Really? I thought we just texted the other day? Are you messing with my semi-fragile brain on a MONDAY? "

    Her: "Hahaha! Maybe I am!"

    Me: "Ugh! You'll never change will you? But, I think that's why I keep you in my circle of friends!"
    ME AGAIN (continuation / before she can reply): You just stand out from the other peeps I hang with! Must be the feisty side??"

    Her: "Oh trust me mister you will never forget me!!"

    Me: "Nikki Please! You don't need to "beg" for my attention.. just come on over! Geez!! "

    Her: I'm NOT begging!! You didn't text me for 3 weeks!"

    Me: "Ummm you actually kept track? Wait! I mean dang girl! Git'chor butt over here already! I'm ordering pizza!"

    Her: "When?" ** BTW- I knew she was hooked already.. just because she kept responding in Rapid Fire Reply" mode**

    Me: Pizza? I'm ordering now. You comin or what? You like Pepperoni/ green pepper right?"

    Her: You remember? That was a long time ago!"

    Me: Yeah! I never forget a girl's favorite pizza. So stop wasting time. "

    Her: "Shut the f**k up! Lol! Yea I'm on my way you d1ck!!"

    Me?? Next move? What did I text?
    Nope, it was not a text! It was me, answering the door to let her in.

    THAT is how you deal with non-responsiveness. You cut it off & wait for HER reaction.


    And when it comes.... you own it!


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    Default Re: Texting sh1t tests HELP !

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    hey bro, the thing is i wasn't that attracted to her, so I never made the move..Also my game has gotten better with experience.

    If i went out with her I would have no problem going for it. Just now I wrote her a text saying.

    "Thank you. I didn't know you were a poet."

    Hang on!! (Follow-uop)
    Somehow I JUST saw this post.....
    So I highlighted the main point in red above:

    If you weren't that attracted to her, why do you care what the response/reaction is?

    That makes me wonder if you're "just looking for outside validation", instead of knowing you've got the skills.??


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    Default Re: Texting Shit tests HELP !

    I'm trying to learn from my mistakes, the more you make the faster you can correct them. Practice makes perfect.

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    Default Re: Texting sh1t tests HELP !

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    Not necessarily a "test"....
    She's reacting / responding to your unfair & disrespectful text, about the "millionaire skateboarder".

    Believe it or not, you started this one yourself.

    She's dishing it right back at you, just as hard & heavy as you gave it to her.

    So, your ONLY hope here is to give her props for giving the comeback. You need to seem unaffected..

    Example: "LOL! Touche' I'm impressed. You're almost as feisty as I thought you could be. I'm buying drinks next time! "

    This type of message makes her feel like she just qualified herself to you. Almost like you were waiting for her to finally meet YOUR requirements, & she passed YOUR test.
    (Flipping the script)

    Don't act like she fazed you at all... Just acknowledge her comment & accept it... then turn it into a playful banter. That puts YOU in control again, & she'll be shocked that you didn't crumble.

    THAT my friend, is what turns women on!

    (and NO... buying her drinks AFTER she qualifies herself is NOT "beta".)

    Awesome............. .................... ...........XD
    Here it is, right now, think about it and you miss it.


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