So i was seeing this girl for awhile. From the start felt like things were developing into a relationship, then more of a booty call on her end, but then kind of died out. She still seems somewhat interested in me by contacting me occasionally, but she always flakes out on plans. Her friends tell me this is just her personality.... she acts flaky even with them.
Anyways i dont really contact her anymore, but honestly would still like to see her.
So yesterday i went with a group of friends to the buffett concert (all day drinking event). This girl was also there with a group of her friends (who im also friends with so we were planning on meeting up for awhile). We texted back and forth.... but then when we met up, there was this awkward Tension that prevented me from even saying hi... i kept an upbeat attitude and had a good time talking to her friends. But i just couldnt get myself to talk to her. She didnt seem to be making herself very receptive as well, which is partly where the weird vibe came from (huddled up with ppl i dont know). I left shortly after and she texted me "why didnt you say hi.... you were acting weird" to which i responded that i thought she was..
How could i have handled this better? I litterally froze and could not go say hi. I feel kind of stupid about it and felt it could have went so much better. So basically this was a case of extreme Approach Anxiety, with someone ive already slept with several times! I dont get it
Anyone else have any similar experiences or thoughts?