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Thread: Delayed/no response, need to build attraction

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    Default Delayed/no response, need to build attraction

    Over the weekend I hung out with a girl I had been talking to on and off for a couple months. We had met a while back through a friend and at the time I was very heavy at 300lbs...I am now down to 185 and we have talked via Facebook a couple of times to go see a concert. Well this past Saturday there was a show and I asked if she was going on FB and got her number. We started texting and I gave her some negs etc. Well she ends up telling me on the Thursday before the show she wasn't gonna be able to go, so I poked fun at her about it and ended the convo by saying 'Well let me know if you end up getting a ticket'

    She texts me Saturday at around 1pm and says she got a ticket... I invite her to meet up and get a bite to eat before the show with my buddy and I. She shows up and we all head to the concert. We get there and she hangs around us for a while and then about an hour in tells me she's gonna go meet up with her best friend(girl) so I joined her. Her friend is piss drunk and wants her to buy more alcohol, so we jump in line. I tell her my favorite band is gonna be playing any second, so I break away and she tells me she will find me. I end up getting way up to the front and about 10 mins later she bumps into me. I put my hand on her hip for about 30 seconds then repeated this until my hand was on her hip for a few mins at a time. The ENTIRE night she played with her hair.

    After the show we end up going back to her apartment to drink and hang out. As we sit at the table playing drinking games I began rubbing her leg and escalated to rubbing up her thigh then to both legs, she was wearing shorts. She didn't mind. I kinda felt awkward about kissing her in front of my friend so we end up crashing early.

    After we wake up hungover we go grab some food and she keeps saying she feels like crap. So get her back to her apartment and walk her to the door and tell her we should hang out again.

    I texted her about 4 hours later and asked her how she was holding up and she said she is doing better etc. Her response was delayed about 10-20mins each time so I also delayed mine.. Well the last thing said was 'what's your work schedule?' and I haven't heard anything from her. She also knows today is my birthday. How should I go about this? The only thing that is worrying me is at the concert I bumped into a friend of mine who told my other friend he saw me with this girl that he previously dated, like 2 years ago. Well he started texting her the morning after as we went to get food hungover. When I walked her to her apartment she told me not to worry about what he said, apparently my friend told him we were all over each other and holding hands . I'm worried he is going to cockblock. Should I text her? A couple days ago she updated her fb status that she lost a tire going down the freeway at 6am. I was thinking about texting her 'lose any tires this morning?' or even the 'Omg this is insane' or should I just say 'hey there '

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    Default Re: Delayed/no response, need to build attraction

    Anything fellas? It's almost been 24 hours since I last sent the text.

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    Default Re: Delayed/no response, need to build attraction

    So I ended up sending her 'hey there ;p' last night and never heard back. Well just now she sends me this

    So I guess there was an assumption made on your end that I went to the show with you as more than a friend. So I'm just gonna be straight up with you. That was not my intention at all. I don't even know you and I wouldn't have agreed if I knew it was more than just going with a friend. Brian(my friend) is still part of my life and I don't feel comfortable nor does he with us being friends after everything that happened.


    Do I just walk away? Or is there something I can do here?

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    Default Re: Delayed/no response, need to build attraction

    Definitely accuse her of jumping the gun here. Defuse it by telling her that you think she's cool, but certain things you noticed just have you taking a step back. If she gets curious about what you're talking about, don't answer.

    Every opportunity a woman takes to introduce conflict I take it as a chance to creat an attraction spike. So take this as a good thing and don't shake.
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    Default Re: Delayed/no response, need to build attraction

    How would you word the response? I can see how this could work.

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    Default Re: Delayed/no response, need to build attraction

    "Whoah somebody is getting serious. I think you're really cool. Just certain things about you just have me keep my distance. Wasnt my intention to give you the wrong impression. I saw the funniest thing today....." (Then change the subject. Whatever you put your focus on you give it power.)

    Mind you I don't know exactly what situation she is referring to or the details. So use your best judgment.
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    Default Re: Delayed/no response, need to build attraction

    She even deleted me on Facebook already lol.

    Is it necessary for me to change the subject or can I cut it off just before that?

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    Default Re: Delayed/no response, need to build attraction

    Honestly I'm not sure if its necessary. Changing the subject helps to increase chances of continuing the conversation without focusing on what was just said. She seems pretty adamant about cutting you off so don't beat yourself up if it doesn't work out right now.
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    Default Re: Delayed/no response, need to build attraction

    So I sent it without the subject changer. Haven't heard a word back since the 28th..


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