Ok, so I opened this girl on dating site & got her to give some major ioi's like message responding to my opener 2x ( I didn't like what she had to say the first time so I just ignored b/c seemed a little bitchy but then I snap responded to her 2nd message), she wrote like 1/4 of a page long email another time (ok, I did ask her a question that warrented this), asked me out before I asked her (this was in like her 4th email to me), always responding to me real fast versus my slower responses.
When she asked me out, I said "probably" (comments?-- was like her 4th email to me) Then, I threw her a PUA line (which didn't actually go over so well) a couple of emails later and tried to accept date & Number Close her but she just ignored that part of email. Then, the date plans became even more iffy because a relative of hers died. "Wooed" her a little more, she messaged me with the chat program, flirted with her a little and number closed her. Plans got cancelled for sure via her email next day. Then, (next morning) I proposed other plans via text and she said that she had the stomach virus, closed her with 3rd set of plans and then she had some excuse that the stomach virus was an infection and we should probably cancel for that night and "we should be able to come up with better plans anyway for next time." I said, ok, if you think so. (I was concerned about her being contagious and wanted to be able to kiss close her on a date.)
She closed with"yea, sorry " and I froze her our (this was last Wednesday). I thought that I had some leverage and that she would re-open me. I kinda want to freeze her out for longer but don't know if there is a "drop dead" date.