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Thread: She says she's not a "just sex" person

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    Default She says she's not a "just sex" person

    On firday I went out with a group of friends and I got introduced to HB, 8.
    I was the funnest, coolest guy within the group... all the girls where responding fantastically to me. I just wanted to have fun so I was just teasing this girl a bit and naturally Kino escalating.. just to have fun.
    I also talked to other girls we didn't know DHVing and I danced with them. HB left and I couldn't say goodbye to her.

    The day after I was kind of bored and I wanted to test a text message that already worked once.

    Me: "Hey HB! Yesterday I didn't have to chance to say goodbye to you in an appropriate manner. And Friday I'm off to California. So: wanna go for a drink and then we fuck? Nothing special... just sex. MyName"

    She: "Hello you. I like direct people... But I'm not the kind of just-sex person. I'd suggest a just-drink, but the day after tomorrow I'm off to xxx. Have a nice trip "

    I start to see a pattern here: the girls that want to get fucked never say: "NO, fuck off.". They first try to disqualify themselves as sluts and they leave the door open for me to fuck them.

    I'd like to hear some more opinions for the next move.

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    Default Re: She says she's not a "just sex" person

    I have no clue whether or not that would work but, you have earned my absolute respect!
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    Default Re: She says she's not a "just sex" person

    Wow that was way too direct haha..
    respect!
    This <----

    well, she still wants to hang out for a drink with you, so just go and try to get Kino and increase her attraction for you.. it might work..
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: She says she's not a "just sex" person

    Yes way too direct - had you said everything except sex you probably would have got it it. Almost all girls will disqualify themselves from being a slut.

    Case in point I met a girl about 2 weeks ago online. HB 10. Works at a gym and has a swimsuit body from heaven. I ask and she sends me some tasteful pics of her in her underwear (after gaining trust and rapport obviously). Her body is unbelievable. I take it easy, compliment her but don't focus on it. A week later she sends me a pic of her in hot pants and a blue bikini saying she just bought two, a red and blue. I tell her she's tormenting me. When asked why I couldn't think of a good answer so I said 'you didnt show me the red one' I was trying to be funny, also disqualifying myself from showing how horny I was. I followed with 'you can show me red one later' (meaning when we meet). She replies 'No! Will not show you!'. I steer the conversation away to something new.

    So we arrange to meet up this last weekend (she's in another city). I meet her, she us absolutely awesome. Great personality, beaming radiantly and totally sexy girl. I can't believe my luck yet again. Because of some of the disqualifiers she said before I wasn't even sure she would end up back at my hotel. She came back with ease. She was very happy to see me because of the many points if groundwork i had done. People may disagree with me but I believe many girls like to 'reward' men with sex. Before I had a chance to kiss her in the room she asked if she could shower (I met her after she finished off work). She came back out wearing only a towel and it was all on. Thankfully I got to have what I had been fantasizing about for a few weeks and underneath the towel all she was wearing was the red bikini! The very thing SHE told me I would not even see I was now peeling off with my teeth!

    Saying straight up you want to fark someone, no matter how cleverly or honestly you put it, is never as good as just meeting and talking to someone, using the time constraint to your advantage and developing a connection. Disqualify yourself. 'i am a gentlemen' 'im not a sleazy guy but i am attracted to you'. Many girls will have a ONS or fling but they almost always need a connection and will almost always disqualify themselves sexually - but usually only initially and usually so they weed out guys who don't want a connection. You didn't want the connection. You stated you didn't want a connection by saying 'just sex'. Had you said 'just talk' you would have got sex because talking implies the emotional connection.

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    Default Re: She says she's not a "just sex" person

    I like your bravery but like everyone says way too direct. Remember you are a door to door shampoo sales guy. You dont knock on someones door and say "Would you like to buy my water and soap shampoo which I like to add smell like sh!t". You have to get your bait and pull her in.

    If you had said:

    Me: "Hey HB! Yesterday I didn't have to chance to say goodbye to you in an appropriate manner. And Friday I'm off to California. I have a lot of packing to do but you should come by my place later on tonight maybe we can grab a glass of wine together and hang out before I go. If not it was fun meeting you. "
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