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Thread: How do I avoid freaking a girl out on facebook?

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    Default How do I avoid freaking a girl out on facebook?

    I run clubnights in Manchester and we are working on putting together a run of new nights. Organising this often involves adding local models/dancers etc. to the facebok profile we set up to do our online promotion because we use a lot of girls when marketing the night... either for the flyers/posters or for actual floor work on the day.

    Like I said we have lots of these girls on the books and I never really pursue them because it's bad for business... but I added one girl (a hard 9 and a lapdancer at a club in town) to the profile because she looked like the type we use (alternative, lots of tattoos/peircings etc.) and when checking her stuff out I saw she was A: single and not happy about it and B: lives in the same *tiny* town that I do on the outskirts of Manchester (where alt people simply do not exist).

    Now i've had this conversation with my friends and we couldn't find any answers, so my question for you is... How do I bounce this girl... or any of the girls on the 'work' profile... over to my personal one and strike up a conversation without looking like a *massive* stalker??
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    Default Re: How do I avoid freaking a girl out on facebook?

    Same as you would any girl. Ignore work, ignore what Facebook is and ignore whether she is alternative or not. Every woman was once a little girl and will probably one day be knitting in a nursing home. You're only a stalker if you actually stalk her so don't even think like that. If you like her persue her as you would anyone else. 'hi how are you?'. One step at a time. Observe her behavior, slowly build mystery and attraction about yourself and she will let you know whether she is interested or not. Or subtley start building yourself into a 'catch' through superior conversation so she becomes irresistibly attracted to you. She's single and not happy about it. Chances are she will either jump at the chance to meet someone new or put up her defensive 'been single a while' barriers. If the latter ignore what she says and continue your game. Try not talk about work too much other than as something you have in common. Chat to her on a deeper emotional level to bring out her dreams and desires and you being the guy who can sweep her off her feet and make those dreams come true.

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    Default Re: How do I avoid freaking a girl out on facebook?

    Now i've had this conversation with my friends and we couldn't find any answers, so my question for you is... How do I bounce this girl... or any of the girls on the 'work' profile... over to my personal one and strike up a conversation without looking like a *massive* stalker??[/QUOTE]


    It's right thee in front of you, you already have common ground, ie: Live in the same area etc through that your probabaly find mutual friends and funny memories from some things that happened in your town. I would be more invested in trying to meet her in the real world, so you cna actually try and sarge her in person rather than on FB. Once you have met and got to a D2 then consider adding her to your personal page.

    Just PM her and say something quirky that will get her to the hook point, you don't have to try much just a little cocky funny and hello is sometimes all it takes.
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    Default Re: How do I avoid freaking a girl out on facebook?

    Thanks for the advice guys. I think everyone new to PUA is guilty of overthinking things a bit. Theres so much to get our teeth into that we lose sight of what it is we are actually doing...

    Desire... if she's anything like me then she'll only use this town for eating and sleeping so a 'random' meet in person would be difficult to do. I just ended up adding her as friend on FB and messaging her. I'll let it ride, if she takes the bait then awesome, if not, no big deal.
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    Talking Re: How do I avoid freaking a girl out on facebook?

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Same as you would any girl. Ignore work, ignore what Facebook is and ignore whether she is alternative or not. Every woman was once a little girl and will probably one day be knitting in a nursing home. You're only a stalker if you actually stalk her so don't even think like that. If you like her persue her as you would anyone else. 'hi how are you?'. One step at a time. Observe her behavior, slowly build mystery and attraction about yourself and she will let you know whether she is interested or not. Or subtley start building yourself into a 'catch' through superior conversation so she becomes irresistibly attracted to you. She's single and not happy about it. Chances are she will either jump at the chance to meet someone new or put up her defensive 'been single a while' barriers. If the latter ignore what she says and continue your game. Try not talk about work too much other than as something you have in common. Chat to her on a deeper emotional level to bring out her dreams and desires and you being the guy who can sweep her off her feet and make those dreams come true.
    I really like this thread, and I appreciate the responses. What are some ways to build mystery on FB and in person?
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    Default Re: How do I avoid freaking a girl out on facebook?

    Trying to post a reply to this but it wont let me because it says i'm posting URL's when i'm not It's just message transcripts... nevermind, I'll just wing it. We've swapped a few messages and she's sent me a huge shit test on her third one but I think I know what to write back.

    I'm curious about that too SmoothFlow, especially when cold-messaging a girl on facebook...
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