Hello all. I've been with a girl in a LTR Of 4.5 years. A lot of the game components I can't use on her this late because I never did it before. Recently she has become distant from me- for the past 4.5 years we had this thing where we'd tell each other everything, any time we went somewhere, did something, etc. the past 2 months she stopped doing this. When I ask her why she makes an excuse everytime.
The thing is, she's smart- if I do the same thing, act distant, she'll call me out on it. She'll know I'm doing it on purpose. But what the hell can I do? I can't tell her "why are u ignoring me" and "why aren't u paying attention to me" because that's AFC. But if I go and start hanging out with girls and stuff shell know I'm doing it on purpose because I never did it before.
Like today, for example. She's acting different. She texted "hi babe" to me at 10 AM, as usual. I said hi back, and texted another message. She didn't respond until 6 pm, where she said "love u." This is highly unsuual for her, and its been going on like this for a month now. In the past she'd tell me EVERYTHING about her day.
I doubt she's cheating. I know you can never tell, but I doubt it simply because it doesn't look like it and she doesn't seem like the type of girl that would do that. She's always calling other girls sluts and making fun of that kind of behavior. But you can never tell.
Anyway, what the holy heck should I do? How can I call her out on this behavior? I feel as if if I call her out on it she'll blow me off, call me crazy and just go on with life. But I want to bring this up to her. Badly.