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    afcforthewin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I LJBF'd her, now feel bad about it.

    Still pretty AFC so third date with an HB8, still hadn't done anything. Date went pretty horribly, poor body language limited eye contact, she didn't laugh at many of my jokes. Plus she goes out a lot, drops e occasionally etc, and I tend to favor more conservative chicks. I just felt like we weren't meshing well at all so at the end of the date I told her "You're probably too much of a party girl for me to want to date, but we can still be friends."

    Now i'm feeling like I was a little harsh (leave them better than when you met them), so I'm contemplating texting to apologize or something (at least for the party girl line). Thoughts?

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    Default Re: I LJBF'd her, now feel bad about it.

    You don't apology to girls...at least not for a comment like that. Most of the time..it's better to come off as the asshole than a spineless guy that has to apology for his point of view! You should amplify the little attraction that she might still have for you..by being cocky and funny and be adventurous. Invite her to do some mundane...like going grocery shopping...since you want to learn how to cook something. Push her playfully when the two of you are walking..stop playing it safe...just take risks!

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    afcforthewin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I LJBF'd her, now feel bad about it.

    Should I wait a while to contact her and invite her out again?


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