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    Mr.Bojangles is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I just can't finish with new girl I am dating

    Title pretty much says it all, I think this is somewhere between guy advice and PUA advice but thought this was the place to ask!

    First off, anyone who recognizes me off the 'get ex back' boards then this shows there's plenty more out there, dust off your game and get out there.

    So I've been dating this great girl, very attractive/beautiful and way better for me than my ex! I'll say just say 'HB8' instead of gushing about her.

    We've hooked up a couple of times and both times I've not managed to finish, granted both times we have both been fairly drunk but even when drunk I've not really had a problem before - but I'm sure we all know the effects of alcohol on the male anatomy.

    I've stopped going solo now so I'll be more sensitive and ready to go but that didn't work, I'm up just not firing.

    I'm not sweating it just yet but twice now is going to start to raise questions and can only blame the alcohol so many times! Girls get a bit 'offended' and self conscious when we don't cum so it's the gentlemanly thing to do

    So, anyone else who has been here got advice? I've been at it before when it just isn't happening but twice in a row with a girl I really like is a tad concerning.

    I'm thinking:

    - Cut back the booze
    - Have her in my own bed as I live alone (she lives with her sis and we have to be quiet as she is in the next room - bit off putting being told to shush every 2 mins)

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    Default Re: I just can't finish with new girl I am dating

    Only time I've ever had it is when it's like round 3 for a night.

    Could be a lack of interest / attraction, could be the booze (even if you've been fine before the booze still hurts performance aka whiskey dick)

    Also if you're stumped it's because the sex just isn't that good right now.

    To fix this, explore some different positions. Tell her you want to have some fun, girls are very open to exploration here and they love it when you take command and make suggestions, so try everything until you find something you like
    My suggestion without getting too visual, try basically doggy style but her lying flat on her stomach with her legs together extended

    Keep the steps you're working on, but it sounds like its just not that great with her yet, so fix that with a better position
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    Default Re: I just can't finish with new girl I am dating

    cut back on the drinks and go to you're place its comfortable and it works great for setting the mood! i Also had a problem with cumming and all i can say is it takes time or maybe even tho you're girl is cute you just dont find her sexy. lastly i find that some girls never add to sex they just lay there quiet which is highly boring!!!

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    Default Re: I just can't finish with new girl I am dating

    Cheers for the input guys.

    Got me worried the interest/attraction wasn't there, but (without being too graphic, this post has been edited so clearly need to dial down my content ) after seeing her in her underwear this morning getting ready for work the 'interest' was definitely there and ready to go.

    I think you guys are right about the sex not being great, in hindsight we have both been too drunk to put in great performances - deffo lots of laying there last night on her part.

    And another reason to cut back on the drink is because first thing she said this morning was "why am I naked?" - which was absolutely hilarious to hear as someone's first words of the day.

    I'm not sure about you guys but I tend to rely on the audio clues that a girl has finished once before I allow myself to finish, is a bit hard when drunk and supposed to be silent!

    I think next time needs to be sober, and after being told "I don't think you're that dirty" todays sexting session has banished that slight misunderstanding of my character


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