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Thread: WTF is wrong with me!! The worst texter ever!!

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    Default WTF is wrong with me!! The worst texter ever!!

    Hey guys,
    So, I'm really good at getting numbers!! I usually go out once a week spend 4 hours chatting girls. I talk to 20 girls, I usually get 10 numbers. I don't have problems with fake numbers or girls not responding!! However, I don't know what I am doing wrong and why girls stop wanting to talk to me after exchanging few SMSES!!

    This week, I met a cute girl in Microsoft store. I told her that I like her Microsoft tshirt and asked her how can I get one!! She told me she's not allowed to sell these tshirts.. and she asked for my name, then my phone number. I decided to tease her a little bit. So I pretended that I'm interested and started a new conversation with her friend in the store!! before I left, I looked for her and Introduced myself and gave her my phone number.

    She texted me the same day.
    Shalom means Hi BTW in Hebrew


    Her: Shalom, Cajun!
    me: Hh Shalom, who r u. ?
    me: that's not funny !! Who r u ?
    me: ;(
    me: Microsoft Girl. ?
    her: Ding ding ding
    me: Hhh God I'm really good U confused me bc u started with Shalom !!
    her: Haha! That's all I know
    me: Well, I'll teach you other words latter. anyway let's cut to chase, I gave you my numbeh bc I think u r cute! And bc I wanna steal ur Microsoft t-shirt !!
    her: Lol...really? Why are you so obsessed with our tshirts?! I think they're ugly
    me: Hhh Google bought the company that I work for and everyone started to wear google tshirts. I wanna go to work with your tshirt lol I think it's a brilliant idea to drive my boss crazy !!
    her: Wow, that's super crazy. Now I get it. I thought you were a Microsoft fan boy...lol
    me: Don't get me wrong .. I Love MS but I'm not like crazy !! You can say im more of a fan of MS girl
    her: Lol, you're funny!

    her: So just wondering, how old are you?
    me: Hhh great !!! Here is the important question. When am I going to get you drunk and steal your tshirt?
    her: Lol, neverrrrrrr. My tshirt is too small for you
    me: I'll lose weight
    her: Ha...
    me: Oooh my age !!! How about we leave that for the 2nd date !!
    her: No fair!
    her:
    me: You know a lot of stuff about me and I know nothing about you . That's not fair ..
    her: We know the same amount of information about each other!
    me: Oooh cool . So when are you gonna buy me dinner ?
    her: When do you want to go to McDonald's?
    me: eeeew. Screw that . When I said 'dinner' I meant fancy, romantic date. Candles and sh1t
    her: Hahaha. I was only kidding...wow
    me: Lol I was kidding also . Anyway let me know when u r fee bc I would love to take you out for a dinner/drink .
    her: Alrighty. Well, I'm feeling beat so I'm gonna pass out. Gnite!
    me: Gnite

    me: Hey
    me: How's my MS girl doing ?
    me: WTF... If u r not interested in a date , u need to hand on my shirt at least
    her: Lol what
    me: Wtf yoooo .. Where is my McDonald date liar ? I was 2 seconds away from deleting ur number lol and forgetting about the whole getting u drunk and stealing ur tshirt plan !!

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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me!! The worst texter ever!!

    Im not that experinced with texting but I can tell you messed by the second set of Text. You seemed to start off good though. One thing that works for me though is when I want to take a girl out I dont normally tell them to Text me when they're free. I find it better to say "when are you free?" and then make a date right then and there or just tell them when we''re going out. For example:
    me: we need to [insert fun activity here] soon.
    Her: ok that sounds Good
    Me: ok Well how about this saturday around 5:00?

    Now she eithier responds two ways , yes or she can say no that day wont work but Im free this day. Eithier way you got a date planned and this approach seems to make you look more aggresive then just asking or waiting for her
    To tell you when she is free.

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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me!! The worst texter ever!!

    Here's my two cents. That went on WAY too long. You could have asked her out like, halfway through.

    Want proof? Here's four consecutive messages she sent you, but I'll cut out some of each message.

    her: Haha! [...]
    her: Lol...really? [...]
    her: [...] ...lol
    her: Lol, you're funny!

    Dude, you had her. But you didn't escalate. Instead, it dragged on. Four or five messages in, ask her to join you for a martini. Cut the crap.

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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me!! The worst texter ever!!

    You were too upfront, talked to much, and too interested too quick. You should have let her come to you if she was the first to text. Believe me I used to be the WORST at texting and found out that you need to keep it short and sweet. You need to leave some mystery behind yourself and not come on too strong either (you just met her after all). I would have just said something like:

    What do you do for fun?

    I'm busy right now I'll talk to you soon

    We should get lunch sometime and get to know eachother better, do you like (whatever)

    Just imagine it in her shoes. You came off too strong and clingy. Just make it short and simple next time. Leaves mystery behind you, makes you look like you have better things to do, and more importantly you are not going to get anywhere through texting; face to face is best and if you text text text there goes all your in person talking material.

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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me!! The worst texter ever!!

    You start off fine but, as she said herself, you are focussing on the shirt and date too much and not moving forward. To move forward with texting you need to reveal more value and attraction about yourself, get her to reveal more intimacy about herself and then when the timings right organize an attractive date offer and not be angry if she refuses. Ultimately you want her to initiate the date if possible which was viable because she texted first. You could have use teaching her Hebrew words to move forward, you could have used computers to move forward, you could introduce new topics/role playing scenarios to move forward. You also have to balance cocky funny with being smart, somewhat polite (build comfort) and innovative. Can also get her emotions and verbose going by asking her key questions like 'you think the shirt is ugly? What would you like to wear for work if it was your choice?' or 'what's the best thing that's happened this week? How did it make you feel?'. Anything to get her doing the talking.

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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me!! The worst texter ever!!

    IMO you've did too much talking about the shirt my man. It's all good don't look too into it, just keep on practicing bro

    Maybe wait a few days, and start over.

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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me!! The worst texter ever!!

    Im assuming youre not the Cajun from Keys to VIP because he's got ridiculous game.

    You were doing pretty darn good until the last paragraph. You crashed and burned on many levels there. Sounded like an annoying prick trying to pretend to be a player (im being honest to help you)
    -dont text 50 times in a row without her responding
    -dont act like youre gonna throw her number away at any second like you are some super player (youve blown that cover a while ago)

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    Default Re: WTF is wrong with me!! The worst texter ever!!

    thank you very much guys!!! Very helpful information. Last week I wasted more than 7 opportunities with this texting style.

    Tomorrow, I'm going out to hit on lucky girls and try a new texting style.


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