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Thread: She says she 'just doesn't go on dates with random dudes'

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    Default She says she 'just doesn't go on dates with random dudes'

    Been talking to this girl on FB after she randomly friends requested me. Been talking for a couple hours off and on and joking around. Well I invited her to get coffee and she responds with 'I don't just go on dates with random dudes' what's something good I can fire back with here?

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    Default Re: She says she 'just doesn't go on dates with random dudes'

    i'd go with something like....'i don't normally accept friend requests from strange women......but there's gotta be a first time for everything '.

    see what response you get back :P if she still says no then your going to need to build some comfort so that your not just a 'random guy'.

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    Default Re: She says she 'just doesn't go on dates with random dudes'

    She responded with 'Ummmmm ok'

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    Default Re: She says she 'just doesn't go on dates with random dudes'

    Definitely need some more comfort if she says that. And don't try to convince her otherwise. She just gave you a shit test and failed. Sorry if that is blunt.

    Best way to pass shit tests is to reframe them and NEVER fall into her frame the way you did if you used the response above.

    I think a better response would've been...

    "Lol cute you used the word date since you're paying for it. Although i wouldn't want you to think i owed you anything afterwards so separate checks."
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: She says she 'just doesn't go on dates with random dudes'

    Well, she removed me from her friends list.

    Whats something I could say to bring this back?

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    Default Re: She says she 'just doesn't go on dates with random dudes'

    the only way to bring it back would be you seeing you randomly on the street one day some time from now. theres no bringing it back from here. move on.
    "I've never seen anyone pull as quickly or as efficiently as you"
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    Default Re: She says she 'just doesn't go on dates with random dudes'

    She was only a 6/10 in my opinion so nothing to cry about. Movin' on! Thanks.

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    Default Re: She says she 'just doesn't go on dates with random dudes'

    Good job on moving on young PUA. FB is a very hard place to pick up women. Try a college campus.


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