Just an update: She texted me while I was at work tonight and asked what I was up to and I waited sometime to reply (she wasnt sure if I was at work or not) so i took my time with texting her back (being inconsistent) and i finally told her I was working and she said she was at home.
At this point I decided to get an ioi. I asked "How much do you miss me?" she replied almost immediatley with "a fuckin lot." I wasnt sure if I shoulvde pushed or pulled so I ended up not responding and she later asked me what my Draw Something account name was so she could play me, and I told her.
So what do you guys think...should I wait for her to initiate again or should I pull and text her something?
Thanks for all your advice man! I do want things to work out between us and that includes her moving in. But I want to make damn sure I've got her reeled in hook-line and sinker before I show too much effort on my part. My biggest concern is that if I show to little effort she'll get bored and move on....so should I stick with what's working or add a little to the stradegy?
Any suggestions? I was thinking keeping things light and playful would be best but then again my judgment is clouded because I have feelings for her. Usually these things are easier for me but like I said my emotions get in the way:/
Dude, are you seriously considering letting your ex move in with you? If you really are trying to get back together with her, it will be the worst decision you make... Do not move in with a girl unless she is "The one" and you're thinking about settling down and giving the whole "married life" thing a try...