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    Default Rapid Fire Responding texts from girl

    So I recently posted a thread about how my ex broke NC and we hung out and it went okay, we talked about how im moving into a new house soon and tonight she texted me that she found one that I should look at. For whatever reason...I just didn't text her back. a few hours later she texted me again and I didn't respond...then ten minutes later she texted again...and again once more a short time later. She stopped sending them so I assume she went to bed. Now I'm curious as to what my next move should be...I would like the option of us getting back together. So should I wait for her to text me again (she'll start calling if she gets desperate enough) or should I text her something first. If it helps heres the texts:



    Her: Hey I found this great place you should look at! *picture* (7:00)

    Her: ?? (9:45)

    Her: Hello????!!!! (10:03)

    Her: Fine! be that way10:17)


    I'd aprreciate the shit out of some input thanks guys!

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    Default Re: Rapid Fire Responding texts from girl

    "Sorry I missed you I was [dhv activity, maybe on the phone til midnight with a chick cousin who is having trouble adjusting to college?? Protector of loved ones??]. Let's grab lunch and I'll tell you more about the house!"

    *At Lunch
    If you don't have any specific info about the house, then just talk about why the neigborhood is good and thus she should consider it and stack to your game.
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    Default Re: Rapid Fire Responding texts from girl

    Love it! I'll probably stick with that but let me ask your opinion on if I didnt text back at all. Seeing as tho she is an ex and still has feelings for me I was wondering about playing the psychological game of her wondering "Why the fuck hasn't he texted me back?!, Is he with someone else? does he not like me anymore?". I'm just curious as to how she would handle that situation and if she'd become desperate for my attention?

    Thanks again btw!!!

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    Default Re: Rapid Fire Responding texts from girl

    Haha nice I like it!

    It depends on what type of girl she is if she's likely to go crazy from NC or if she'll just flake (and you know her best). It will drive her toward you if she's the highly emotional type (invests heavily in men, is a nurturer, is highly self-conscious). However if she's the more logical (level headed, practical, not eaaily fazed etc) then she'll be more likely to flake.

    Also be sure that her attraction/interest/emotional-investment in you exceeds her caution-to-rekindle-things/busy lifestyle.

    If she's the type it will work on then go for it! It will ne a nice push that ultimately makes her pull xD just be sure you keep a solid frame and have some dhv answer for her questions about your MIAness.
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    Default Re: Rapid Fire Responding texts from girl

    Thanks so much for the help man! I think I'm gonna say this:

    "Hey thanks chica! I'm gonna go check out the house later"

    I think this is the best of both worlds because I won't be apologizing for not texting her back (so not to look AFC). And if i know her as well as I think I do she'll ask why I never texted back (jealousy) and she'll also ask if she can come with me to look at the house (investment).


    I think this should work okay? But if you have any tweaks or advice lemme know!!!

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    Default Re: Rapid Fire Responding texts from girl

    So I texted her what I wrote above a little earlier this morning and she replied a little differently than I had anticipated....she asked if she could move in....

    I deffinitley wasnt expecting that and I don't know if it's a shit test or not so for now I'll play my cards carefully

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    Default Re: Rapid Fire Responding texts from girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Hotel Yorba View Post
    Love it! I'll probably stick with that but let me ask your opinion on if I didnt text back at all. Seeing as tho she is an ex and still has feelings for me I was wondering about playing the psychological game of her wondering "Why the fark hasn't he texted me back?!, Is he with someone else? does he not like me anymore?". I'm just curious as to how she would handle that situation and if she'd become desperate for my attention?

    Thanks again btw!!!
    If you have a smart phone, what you can do to drive her nuts even more is to set your text messages to show when/if you've read them. She'll know that you've seen her txt but haven't replied and she'll start wondering what you're doing and keep thinking about you

    As far as moving in....I would personally question it and give her a couple of shit tests like "why do you want to move in with me all of the sudden?" or kind of a cocky/funny reply "don't you have friends you can move in with...you do have friends right? :P"

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    Default Re: Rapid Fire Responding texts from girl

    After she asked I texted her back "Why would you wanna move in with ME?!" she replied with "It'd be fun". Since we know eachother so well I'm concerned that the cocky/funny reply would come off as me trying to be an asshole and i think she'd see through it. Do you maybe have any other shit tests I could use?

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    Default Re: Rapid Fire Responding texts from girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Hotel Yorba View Post
    After she asked I texted her back "Why would you wanna move in with ME?!" she replied with "It'd be fun". Since we know eachother so well I'm concerned that the cocky/funny reply would come off as me trying to be an asshole and i think she'd see through it. Do you maybe have any other sh1t tests I could use?
    There's a couple of things I gotta consider here....how you broke up, where you guys stand as friendsand if you have any bad feelings towards each other, or just simply what you want with her right off the bat you can go two ways...

    1) Say "You need to be more convincing " or something among those lines, this creates sexual Tension and you can set up a date from here and at the end "show her your place" to see if she'd fit well inside haha

    2) Say you need some time to think about it since you two haven't talked in a while and it might not be a great idea right away....essentially make her work for it but it doesn't come off in a sexual way

    It sounds like she's being flirty by saying "it'd be fun" so I'm guessing you guys are ok after the break up

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    Default Re: Rapid Fire Responding texts from girl

    we've dated on/off for the past 4 years, I guess you could say we're in the "off" phase right now but I'm trying to change that so I went NC for a couple weeks and she finally broke down and texted me. So we hung the other day which was a mix bag of emotions, I made her laugh a lot and have been doing a lot of Push-Pull stuff and it seems to be working.

    So I guess I just need some pointers on how to keep her invested in me because whenever she comes back things go well for a couple weeks then it sort of devolves into the same bullshit.

    But I am going to use the "Why should I let you live with me?" thing. It's playful and like you said will make her work a little harder.


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