Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 6 of 6
Like Tree3Likes
  • 2 Post By Virgil
  • 1 Post By BatMan

Thread: Problem: She asked "How many FWB?"

  1. #1
    Autismus's Avatar
    Autismus is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 10,566, Level: 68
    Level completed: 29%, Points required for next Level: 284
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    New Orleans, LA
    Posts
    903
    Points
    10,566
    Level
    68
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    473

    Default Problem: She asked "How many FWB?"

    So I hooked up with this HB8 today, but fell out to LMR/ASD/BR Mid-coitis. ...yeah, I know! I'd be more upset if I didn't just hook up with my HB7 FWB.

    The HB8 and I talked about "keeping it casual" - I presume that means casually hooking up, while the HB7 and I have overtly discussed that we are just friends and sometimes we'll have sex. But tonight after the deed, on the way back to her dorm, the HB7 asked me how many other sex buddies I have.

    What do I tell her?

    Do I dodge it or keep it delicately honest? Telling her something like

    "Well, I might talk to other girls, just like you might talk to other guys. I think that if you would be bothered by the idea of something happening between me and someone else then we should go back to just being friends."

    Am I gonna have to do that? ^ Gambit my FWB so that I can keep multiple things going on?
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

  2. #2
    Virgil's Avatar
    Virgil is offline Moderator / PUA All Star
    Points: 18,408, Level: 86
    Level completed: 12%, Points required for next Level: 442
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social31 days registered10000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Apr 2011
    Location
    the Netherlands
    Posts
    923
    Points
    18,408
    Level
    86
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
    Rep Power
    789

    Default Re: Problem: She asked "How many FWB?"

    Just tell her what happens between you and a woman is only the concern of the woman and you, and that when you're together it's just you and her, so you're not going to tell her.

  3. #3
    Autismus's Avatar
    Autismus is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 10,566, Level: 68
    Level completed: 29%, Points required for next Level: 284
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    New Orleans, LA
    Posts
    903
    Points
    10,566
    Level
    68
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    473

    Default Re: Problem: She asked "How many FWB?"

    If she comes back with "I don't want to hook up with someone who is sleeping with other people." Then is there anything (short of lying) that I cam say besode LJBF?
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

  4. #4
    linking is offline Banned
    Points: 8,553, Level: 64
    Level completed: 35%, Points required for next Level: 197
    Overall activity: 8.8%
    Achievements:
    Social7 days registered5000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    Uk
    Posts
    876
    Points
    8,553
    Level
    64
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Problem: She asked "How many FWB?"

    depends how important to you the actual friendship is, if your not that bothered then you could try not saying LJBF and just act as if if it finishes your just going to cut her out maybe? cant think of much else unfortunately :/

    linking x

  5. #5
    Virgil's Avatar
    Virgil is offline Moderator / PUA All Star
    Points: 18,408, Level: 86
    Level completed: 12%, Points required for next Level: 442
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social31 days registered10000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Apr 2011
    Location
    the Netherlands
    Posts
    923
    Points
    18,408
    Level
    86
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
    Rep Power
    789

    Default Re: Problem: She asked "How many FWB?"

    If she doesn't want to hook up with someone that sleeps with others, either stop doing so or say if she doesn't like that, the relationship can't continue. If you give in, you start out weak in the exclusive relationship, though.

  6. #6
    BatMan's Avatar
    BatMan is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 31,552, Level: 100
    Level completed: 0%, Points required for next Level: 0
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social25000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Awards:
    Most PopularCommunity Award
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    2,151
    Points
    31,552
    Level
    100
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 12 Times in 12 Posts
    Rep Power
    1389

    Default Re: Problem: She asked "How many FWB?"

    Virgil is right. Hold your ground if she says she doesn't like it. Just tell her that that's too bad and wish her the best. Remember you are the prize. She will be upset yes, but this will shoot the attraction through the roof because she couldn't shake your ground. Never lie to try and keep things the way they are. You are better off having standards and sticking to them.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


Similar Threads

  1. Trouble with a "friend" worried I have or am getting "friendzoned"
    By robot690 in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 02-24-2013, 07:08 AM
  2. Is it true girls take "kindness" for "weakness"?
    By Bender in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 12
    Last Thread: 01-03-2013, 08:41 PM
  3. "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game
    By Saff Mcgraff in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 8
    Last Thread: 08-06-2012, 12:58 AM
  4. Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 06-10-2012, 11:57 AM
  5. She asked me "What's up"
    By jdawg in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 04-11-2011, 11:47 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com