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    Default How am I not number closing this girl?!

    I'm trying to wangle a weekend date with this girl. She says she's totally down but just ignores anything relating to a number... I feel the next message is key so i'm throwing it open to the floor, how shall I get around this?

    So I game her for a few days over about 12 messages and she agrees to a date....

    Me: Wear them proud Kacie. Cool, drop me a text on 077XX XXX XXX and we'll sort it all out :-) x

    She doesn't message back or text for a few days so I send her another message.

    Me: Hey, you still alive out there Kacie? How is your busy week going? x

    Her: Hey! I've been without the internet for days now lol only just got back online

    Me: Oh no, haha, it's like the dark ages again... Of course, you've been moving, how you doing with that? New place up to your standards? x

    Her: Wasn't that just had to stay at my grandparents they don't have internet lol. But yeah New places is good

    Me: Haha, really was the land before time then. Bless, how did you pass the time? You still down for doing something fun at weekend? X

    Her: Sure will be good and I read a book haha

    Me: Haha, so thats what people did before the internet... I miss reading for fun, no time for it with uni :-( Cool, does Sunday evening work for you? x

    Her: does indeedly doooooo



    And thats it, I'm confused. What's goin on here? I don't wanna send my number over again and tell her to text. Should I ask for hers? :-S
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    Default Re: How am I not number closing this girl?!

    tel her what your plans are and give a place for you to meet up at, once you meet her in real life she should be willing to give you her number. some girls have this fear of giving their imfo out to strangers they met online(your a stranger till you meet in real life) their fear is understandable, considering all the predators out there. you should agree to meet in a public place were there will be lots of people, this should help combat her fear

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    Default Re: How am I not number closing this girl?!

    I agree with meteora, you have a way of communicating already, use it to have her meet up with you. If things are going well on the date, then slide your phone over to her with the contacts screen already up (she'll know what to do) and say something like, "this messaging stuff is getting old, put your contact in and we'll continue our conversation". Personally, I don't put the Number Close on a pedestal. In this day and age all it does it put a spot on the relationship timeline.

    Good luck!


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