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    Default Re: Dealing with an Alpha Female HB9.5

    There it goes.

    I just send her a casual invite on a date.

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    Me:
    Hey Freckles
    Wanna go have a drink next Saturday? I think it would be fun. What about (insert location name here) @ 9:12PM and 21 seconds?

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    I must admit I feel the same little butterflies of stress as when I making a move on a girl back when I was a teenager. It's my first time asking a girl on an actual date in like 7 years +.

    Now I need to get into the right Mindset and be prepared for a flake or a "no". I'll give you an update as soon as I get a response.

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    Default Re: Dealing with an Alpha Female HB9.5

    i'm in the same situation

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    i'm in the same situation
    You mean the girl is over your standards and she's an Alpha too?

    Here's an update:
    She replied by saying she had to do her mother's job until Monday. (meaning she won't be able to go out on Saturday - she has a child to take care of part-time).

    This leaves me with 3 things to say:

    1) Why? booohooo (that's me faking I'm crying) Why? Now I'll have to ask her again later, as if it hadn't been difficult enough the first time! lol

    2) Actually, I think it's a hell of a good reason. She's a mother and I would never want to go out with a mother who doesn't take care of her children. (I would've physically dated one, though :P)

    3) For the first time in my life.. drumroll... I have asked a HB9.5 on a date... and she DIDN'T SAY "NO" ! Thank you puaforums! (we can't have a more positive attitude than mine, don't we?) lol

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    Default Re: Dealing with an Alpha Female HB9.5

    no she doesnt want a bar of it, she is my greatest challenge, she games just as hard as me, just im the one who wants her, we kissed and text but it never esculates, she is in control. so i abandoned it
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Dealing with an Alpha Female HB9.5

    Quote Originally Posted by ronthepen View Post
    You mean the girl is over your standards and she's an Alpha too?

    Here's an update:
    She replied by saying she had to do her mother's job until Monday. (meaning she won't be able to go out on Saturday - she has a child to take care of part-time).

    This leaves me with 3 things to say:

    1) Why? booohooo (that's me faking I'm crying) Why? Now I'll have to ask her again later, as if it hadn't been difficult enough the first time! lol

    2) Actually, I think it's a hell of a good reason. She's a mother and I would never want to go out with a mother who doesn't take care of her children. (I would've physically dated one, though :P)

    3) For the first time in my life.. drumroll... I have asked a HB9.5 on a date... and she DIDN'T SAY "NO" ! Thank you puaforums! (we can't have a more positive attitude than mine, don't we?) lol
    u say this: thats cool ttyl (30)
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Dealing with an Alpha Female HB9.5

    If she has kids and is single (even if she is narried) she is nowhere near as tough to game as a single HB. Kids automatically make her disqualified in her own mind. Its like they lower their standards a little. I've found moms super easy to game ... even simple compliments alone can get u far. Most likely the guy they were with was a jerk so they basically want a nice guy who is alpha but not as much as a pua normally would be.

    Dont know if i'm reading your posts wrong. Let me know if i'm off base lol
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    Default Re: Dealing with an Alpha Female HB9.5

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    u say this: thats cool ttyl (30)
    Thanks Xavier. I will copy/paste your reply right now. It's so cool to have your brain working beside mine! I honestly didn't know what to answer beside something about it being a good thing.

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    If she has kids and is single (even if she is narried) she is nowhere near as tough to game as a single HB. Kids automatically make her disqualified in her own mind. Its like they lower their standards a little. I've found moms super easy to game ... even simple compliments alone can get u far. Most likely the guy they were with was a jerk so they basically want a nice guy who is alpha but not as much as a pua normally would be.

    Dont know if i'm reading your posts wrong. Let me know if i'm off base lol
    It's a possibility that her mother status is lowering her self-qualification. She had a child (or two - I'm not sure yet) at a very young age and they are teens now, I don't know if it makes a difference. I don't think compliments is the way to go though. I would have to try but I think it's too early now. But if you come up with a strategy involving compliments and Xavier approves I will try it

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    Default Re: Dealing with an Alpha Female HB9.5

    Just to clarify: by compliments i dont mean 'oh you are sooo beautiful." I mean about her doing a good job raising her kids properly, or how it can be tough to find time to spend with them. Or compliment her kids acheivements.

    I have successfully gamed like 6 single moms or so (even when i was an AFC). Age range from 28 to 40. Its not hard. Its actually why i started learing PU. I was wondering why i could make it work with hot moms but not single ladies lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Just to clarify: by compliments i dont mean 'oh you are sooo beautiful." I mean about her doing a good job raising her kids properly, or how it can be tough to find time to spend with them. Or compliment her kids acheivements.

    I have successfully gamed like 6 single moms or so (even when i was an AFC). Age range from 28 to 40. Its not hard. Its actually why i started learing PU. I was wondering why i could make it work with hot moms but not single ladies lol.
    @Lockdown: Ok I see what you mean. Makes sense!

    *update*
    What she said about spending the weekend with her kid was true. She posted a pic of her son on FB: her son won a skateboard competition the night I had invited her for a drink. I could "compliment her kids achievement" lol

    My question is: How do I invite her again without looking needy? Should I wait eternally for her to do the next move or should I be "traditional" again and ask her for a 2nd date? I got a bad feeling about this.


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