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    GoldMiner is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy PUA turned AFC needing some breakup advice

    I started hooking up with this chick back in December, told her I didn't want to take it any further than that. She started telling me that she wasn't neccesarily ready for a relationship, but began developing strong feelings for me. From things she had hinted to me (still had feelings for an ex, was living pretty loose) I saw many a red flag and straight told her that neither of us was ready for a relationship. But I was so attracted to her, she is a reindeer herder that likes to hunt and fish and I;m all about the outdoorsy chicks. We kept doing our thing, feelings got involved and I started falling for her. I even knew it was a mistake then, let alone now. I'm 26, she's 23. I live and work in her SMALL hometown in Alaska. Cheating and drinking are almost part of life around here for the locals. Anyway, we started kicking it daily and it was almost like she came to my place one night and never left. Though her mom lives in town, she has always felt like she has nowhere to go and always guilted me into letting her stay. She is very manupulative. Before I get into this, keep in mind that I have always satisfied her sexually...I'm talking squirting, convulsions all that good stuff. Long story short, she cheated on me not long after telling me she loved me. I told her I didn't have the desire or time to be with her, but she LITERALLY would sleep outside my apt. after banging on the door all night. Weakness got the best of me and I pretty much took her back. Then I found out she was sexting her ex, who she also had cheated on. I tried to break it off again and this time, she got so emotional that my neighbors came to the door and the cops soon followed. I almost got evicted for that little event. I told the police to take her home and asked if they could inform her that she wasn't welcome here. She kept coming by sleeping outside and all. Talked to her one morning, she promised me all sorts of stuff and my dumbass took her back again. A couple weeks ago I went to my hometown for my time off and she got a DUI while I was down there. I get back, ask her what all happened while I was gone. Asked if she saw any dudes and finally ended up finding out she cheated once again. I flipped and said a LOT of disrespectful things to her. Yada, yada, yada...Took her back. Now she's asking me for a $2,500 loan for lawyer fees for the DUI, after not helping with rent, me doing all the cooking and cleaning (all while working 84 hours a week). She's still texting a bunch of dudes and I just want out. I know what you're thinking, but I wont budge this time. I also know how pathetic, weak and insecure that I have been. I don't have any real friends up here, no family, nothing. Just looking to get this all off my chest and maybe for some words of encouragement. I'm sure if you've read all this you're wishing you could reach through the monitor and slap me in the face. I know what needs to be done, I just don't know how. I've already told her that I want nothing to do with her, that I'm not attracted to her. Help me out, please

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    matt0731 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: PUA turned AFC needing some breakup advice

    I was in the same boat as you not even a year ago, it's surprising how much the story sounds similar. I went through her cheating numerous times before I got tired of it, I started making myself really horrible in bed, and I waited for her to cheat again (The difference was I lived with her) I grabbed my stuff and moved in temporarily with a really close friend. She showed up there crying a few times but no matter how many times she asked me to come back I said no, however bad the crying/ screaming got. The cops are on your side, she comes back call them. You're best tool for a breakup is persistance. It's not amazing advice, but maybe my story will help you. Good luck, you don't deserve that.


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