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    Exclamation Emergency emergency - girl flaking from a concert

    this girl is trying to flake last minute from a concert i invited her too. help me i need anti-flake techniques to get her to change her mind

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    Default Re: Emergency emergency!!!!!!!!!!

    I go counter to a lot of what I see in this forum, so take this advice with a grain of salt.

    She flakes: either you didn't get her excited enough to see you, or something legitimately came up.

    Let it go, and invite her out again in a couple days. If she says no, she flaked because she wasn't attracted enough.

    Bonus tip, it seems to me that you're too attached to this one girl. Go meet some more. Crap happens in life and you can't always coerce people to do what you want. Just saying.

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    Default Re: Emergency emergency!!!!!!!!!!

    She flaked at the last min for a concert? If something serious didn't happen (like a family member is in the hospital) then you definitely need to look back on your previous game. Sorry my friend, but doesn't look like its going to happen.
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    Default Re: Emergency emergency!!!!!!!!!!

    text her : "i thought u were interesting and i wanted to get to know u if not thats then let's just be friends'
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Emergency emergency!!!!!!!!!!

    im not hung up on this girl just excited. i got her to come anyways and she enjoyed it.

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    Default Re: Emergency emergency!!!!!!!!!!

    Good deal. Next time relax, it seems like you got freaked out a bit when you had hit some road bumps. But glad it went well. Cheers.

    Quote Originally Posted by metalmulisha View Post
    im not hung up on this girl just excited. i got her to come anyways and she enjoyed it.
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    Question Re: Emergency emergency!!!!!!!!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    Good deal. Next time relax, it seems like you got freaked out a bit when you had hit some road bumps. But glad it went well. Cheers.
    yea,the Flake just happen to be a Sh1t Test. i told her she wasnt obligated to come,but i would like it if she came. thats when she decided to come. i invited her to another because she wants to do it again,she accepted. heres where the story takes a twist. i hadnt been able to contact her for 2 weeks after this,reason being i didn't have sufficient $ to pay my phone bill. i find out on her facebook that shes in a relationship with a guy,like wtf happen?! o.o. in her comments it says she haven't went out with him yet but they still call each other boo and stuff. what should i do?

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    Default Re: Emergency emergency!!!!!!!!!!

    Confused ... u invited her to a show OR paid for her ticket?

    You could be getting played. OR she likes u and him and chose him.
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    Default Re: Emergency emergency!!!!!!!!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Confused ... u invited her to a show OR paid for her ticket?

    You could be getting played. OR she likes u and him and chose him.
    both,i wanted to be a gentleman. i invited her to another concert but idk if she'll go to this one this time.

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    Default Re: Emergency emergency - girl flaking from a concert

    Yeah I think your getting played for friendzoned.

    Hard to tell because of lack of details. But seems to me she's played you so far
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