-met through POF, she messaged me
-using 0 game (being myself) at dinner led to make me LJBF
-Gamed her the next meet-up and led to make-out plus other things but no F-Close, she left abruptly
-I usually text message her and she answers with just a few words
-about a week and a half ago, I went from never using FaceBook (which she knows) to constantly uploading pics and videos that ONLY dhv me (e.g. pulling pranks on friends, status updates showing that I am going out to a club, etc.. all of which has been getting 3-18 comments. This made her text me a few times(rare thing).
-One time I made my status "...Just finished cleaning up his friends list. If you are here you are still cool, but don't get comfortable." I got a lot of posts from people thanking me and being happy, but she just FaceBook messaged me "I'm glad we are still friends"
The Text Message:
So yesterday afternoon (Saturday), she deactivated her FaceBook. Later at midnight, she messaged me gibberish like "dsfjbsafhsahfjsbfsd sadasdhfosahf."
She is an amazing person (a corporate lawyer) who has been in only 3 LTRs for almost 10 years. She's in VERY high demand and has been single for about 6 months, plus has MANY orbiters she keeps around. It's confirmed that I have been the farthest with her emotionally and physically since she has been single.
What do I think?
After we made out, she said that she didn't expect it and that it just kind of happened. She also never expressed feelings of any kind for me, and actually withdrew a whole lot away from me. I asked if we are still friends and she said that we always were. And after that, we never really defined the relationship until the other day on FaceBook when she said "I am glad that we are still friends."
I believe that the Gibberish text message she sent was a compliance test. Whenever she messages one of her orbiters, they message back right away and come to her beck and calling. I did not message back because it was Saturday night and I wanted to show that I was busy having fun. I will not reply to this text.
I don't have any idea why she deactivated it because she uses it every single day. I am hoping that a just a small part of the reason why is because she didn't want to see my posts. I also changed my POF profile a lot with some cocky comedy and maybe she saw that I was dating other girls.
My next step:
This Wednesday, I will text her "I am calling you tonight." Then when I do call her, I will run some game: attraction, qualification but put major emphasis on comfort. Then I will ask her what happened with her FaceBook.
What do you think?
Any thoughts? Input? I do have major oneitis for this woman and I constantly force myself to sarge to combat showing neediness. Oh god I want her, lol. If I do get her, that will make me so freaking happy!