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    Swag is offline PUA in Training
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    Default What Does this Text Message mean?

    Background
    -met through POF, she messaged me
    -using 0 game (being myself) at dinner led to make me LJBF
    -Gamed her the next meet-up and led to make-out plus other things but no F-Close, she left abruptly
    -I usually text message her and she answers with just a few words
    -about a week and a half ago, I went from never using FaceBook (which she knows) to constantly uploading pics and videos that ONLY dhv me (e.g. pulling pranks on friends, status updates showing that I am going out to a club, etc.. all of which has been getting 3-18 comments. This made her text me a few times(rare thing).
    -One time I made my status "...Just finished cleaning up his friends list. If you are here you are still cool, but don't get comfortable." I got a lot of posts from people thanking me and being happy, but she just FaceBook messaged me "I'm glad we are still friends"

    The Text Message:
    So yesterday afternoon (Saturday), she deactivated her FaceBook. Later at midnight, she messaged me gibberish like "dsfjbsafhsahfjsbfsd sadasdhfosahf."

    She is an amazing person (a corporate lawyer) who has been in only 3 LTRs for almost 10 years. She's in VERY high demand and has been single for about 6 months, plus has MANY orbiters she keeps around. It's confirmed that I have been the farthest with her emotionally and physically since she has been single.

    What do I think?
    After we made out, she said that she didn't expect it and that it just kind of happened. She also never expressed feelings of any kind for me, and actually withdrew a whole lot away from me. I asked if we are still friends and she said that we always were. And after that, we never really defined the relationship until the other day on FaceBook when she said "I am glad that we are still friends."

    I believe that the Gibberish text message she sent was a compliance test. Whenever she messages one of her orbiters, they message back right away and come to her beck and calling. I did not message back because it was Saturday night and I wanted to show that I was busy having fun. I will not reply to this text.

    FaceBook:
    I don't have any idea why she deactivated it because she uses it every single day. I am hoping that a just a small part of the reason why is because she didn't want to see my posts. I also changed my POF profile a lot with some cocky comedy and maybe she saw that I was dating other girls.

    My next step:
    This Wednesday, I will text her "I am calling you tonight." Then when I do call her, I will run some game: attraction, qualification but put major emphasis on comfort. Then I will ask her what happened with her FaceBook.

    What do you think?
    Any thoughts? Input? I do have major oneitis for this woman and I constantly force myself to sarge to combat showing neediness. Oh god I want her, lol. If I do get her, that will make me so freaking happy!

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    Swag is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: What Does this Text Message mean?

    Hey guys, so I found out that I mixed up the signals and misread the girl. She is now in a relationship with someone else. I know where I went wrong, I did really well but then kept up the player attitude and made her feel like a sl*t. If anything, I pushed her into the arms of the good guy by not building comfort and playing to many games after making out with her. I feel like Good Luck Chuck, lol.

    Anyways, I am pretty hurt since this was the first girl I gamed in about 2 years and I felt like she was the one (I know, lol). Anyway, I am looking at it as she rejected my game and not me as a person.

    So guys, I want to know how to exit gracefully with this one. I found out from another source that she has a boyfriend but I am not supposed to know. What should I text her, or should I text her at all? What should I do?

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    inter1010 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: What Does this Text Message mean?

    I don't think thats where you went wrong. If you only had a make out session you shouldn't instantly stop seeing other girls and propose to her!! that makes you look beta as hell. In all honesty it should make you look better in her eyes, unless you were doing it in a way that was so obvious you were trying to make her jealous she got turned off. Also, remember, just cause she has a boyfriend does not mean its over. If you like her, be happy for her and if things ever go south she will remember you. .... I have a friend that literally gets 2 or 3 txt messages a week from girls saying " I just broke up with my bf, lets hangout"!! ..... Its because he's happy for them and parts ways amiably!!


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