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    Default Almost F closed, need advice from here

    Hey 1st time poster here, thought I'd tell a little bit of myself before getting into it.

    Skip to the 3rd girl of you don't want to hear me ramble on.

    I'm a tall overweight guy lol no getting around it. I started reading The Game I'd say maybe 3 weeks ago and prolly been looking at these forums for a month. Recently I've changed as a person- I've always been that drunk guy, I enjoyed it fully don't get me wrong. I really don't have a ton of experience with girls prolly due to that. I'm not a virgin but I'm no pua* Well since visiting these forums and the book the past 3 weeks have been amazin. So:

    Past 3 weeks I've numbered closed 3 girls over 3 weekends.

    1st girl was way out of my league but I was getting so many IOIs from her and made her chase me around the bar all night. Didn't get with her or anything. Got the number txted a little back and forth and never heard back. Deleted her number.

    2nd girl - some 40-50 yr old (I'm late 20s) she was with 2 friends at the bar. I opened using what I knew - 1 of the girls was celebrating her birthday so I opened that way. This 40-50 wasn't even my target but it became it. So whatever nothing happened gave her my number cause she asked for it. Over and done

    3rd girl is someone I've seen through friends and have been interested in but always got sh*tfaced. Well this time I took it easy and worked my semi good game and next thing I know I'm getting with her. We all stayed at a friends house that night and me and her stayed together on an air mattress lol. Lights go out and we go at it, eventually going down on her. There was another couple in the same room thus I didn't fully close. But I did have her going crazy. I had a great time with this girl - sexually. What's driving me nuts now is I want to continue where we left off. What's the best approach from here?

    Thanx alot in advance, sorry if my grammar is all messed up - iPhone in bed

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    Default Re: Almost F closed, need advice from here

    just play it cool man but do try to get her alone but not right away
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Almost F closed, need advice from here

    Bads news: you can't exactly pick up where you left off.
    Good news: you can def close.

    To get her back to where she was you have to get her to a similarly stimulated state. This means starting out slowly with only incidental Kino - the important thing is that she knows that you aren't just hanging out with her because you expect sex. Ironically, if she thinks you don't expect sex and are just having fun - she'll want sex. If she thinks you're just talking to her because you expect her to put out - then she won't.

    She's def into you sexually, show her you're into her non-sexually (as well as sexually).
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Almost F closed, need advice from here

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    Bads news: you can't exactly pick up where you left off.
    Good news: you can def close.

    To get her back to where she was you have to get her to a similarly stimulated state. This means starting out slowly with only incidental Kino - the important thing is that she knows that you aren't just hanging out with her because you expect sex. Ironically, if she thinks you don't expect sex and are just having fun - she'll want sex. If she thinks you're just talking to her because you expect her to put out - then she won't.

    She's def into you sexually, show her you're into her non-sexually (as well as sexually).
    I agree with this. Just take a step back and continue to hang out with her and don't think about the sex too much. Rekindle good conversation and rapport and engineer a situation you can be alone. Careful not to leave it too long or observe subtle hints or when you pounce she might be on her period

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    Default Re: Almost F closed, need advice from here

    Thanx alot for the advice guys ... I''ll try and update later on

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    Default Re: Almost F closed, need advice from here

    Don't think of yourself as fat, but fluffy yet sexy. I drink all the time, it's a new age, drinking is fine. A girl is NEVER out of you league, you're holding yourself back thinking like that, don't dwell on that sexual thought.It'll mess you up in the long run, keep practicing. Good luck sir.

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    Default Re: Almost F closed, need advice from here

    I said I'll update so here it is ...

    I've gone out with this girl (the 3rd one) 4 times now ... 1st time I took her out to eat n bowling which really didn't go the best in my mind. There's was no Kino at all obviously my fault. I was wayyy too laid back. I talked to her after and she appreciated it based on how aggressive I was the first time we were together.

    2 more times I've taken her to the movies, held hands and all corny sh1t lol. Nothing came out of those *dates*

    This past Saturday we went out with friends and hit up a bar. I had everything going - great kino, was massaging her while at the bar. I drove so at the end of the night I was like your staying over. Both of us drank alil bit so we were definitely a bit looser. She says that she'd like to go home. I kinda go back n forth with her and finally ask her 1 more does she really want to go home- she said yes. So I park infront of her house and we start going at it. She takes my hand and puts it over her tit. I basically said I don't want to do this here and kind of pulled away again stating she should stay with me. She again declines n basically ends there. Was extremely frustrated at how that ended especially since I really didn't want to leave her that night. I'm almost sure that I couldn't have done anything better. Just sux

    Well that's my update ... And again I appreciate all the feed back thus far.

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    Default Re: Almost F closed, need advice from here

    Have her drive and pick you up, tell her you're not completly ready yet and to come in for a few. (This makes her more relaxed at your house for later) afterwards tell her you have something to show her on TV/YouTube/etc. (Preferably funny) But tell her she cant stay long because its past your bedtime, have her sit on your lap and show her the video, play with her tits, if she stops you point at the TV/ computer and say look at that and start lauging. Play with her tits again. Escalate. Pound. Done.

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    Default Re: Almost F closed, need advice from here

    Quote Originally Posted by matt0731 View Post
    Have her drive and pick you up, tell her you're not completly ready yet and to come in for a few. (This makes her more relaxed at your house for later)
    This is actually good advice. I will often try get a girl into my apartment or hotel room earlier in the evening or during the day with no intentions and then later it is much easier because they have already been inside and are more relaxed.

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    Default Re: Almost F closed, need advice from here

    Another update

    Oh and the idea of her driving is out of the question, she doesn't at the moment. I kind of know the reason from other friends but Ill wait to her it from her.

    I've stopped trying to get with other girls roughly 3 or so weeks ago for a couple reasons.
    1. I can't lol when I'm out I'm with this chick
    2. I do like her

    So this is the same girl I've been seeing. Since my last update I'd say we hung out 4 times.

    Ill explain 2 of them in detail.

    1st: we went out to a bar with friends to celebrate other friends bdays. At this point in our "relationship" Kino is constant. I'm almost always have my arm around her or on her back when we're walking. Once again alcohol definitely looses up both of us. We get with each other a couple times in the bar throughout the night. We leave semi early, friend that drive wanted to leave.

    I get dropped off by my car, she comes with with. I turned to her and here we go again - your staying over tonight!? Nope she doesn't want to. I tell her straight up that it doesn't make sense. She says next time. But before I could start driving we start going at it. Once again this gets pretty heavy. At this point I'm fed up- kind of funny the way I did this looking back on it.

    Setting: 2am my best guess and parked in the street
    I turn off my car lights and turn off the car while slamming my keys in my car lol then proceed to start getting really aggressive. She loves it, she lowers her shirt n takes down her bra. She wants it rough lol. She then wants me to suck on them -rough. Now she starts feeling me up. She asks me to take it out. I take it out and she starts doing her thing. She tells me straight up she wants to taste me. I tried, I couldn't bust. What made things worse is a dam old lady decides to walk her dog 2am in the morning. We had to stop n it never got back up after that lol. I wasn't through though. I tell her to unbutton her pants n let me return the favor. She actually seemed alil hesitant, but I got em off. Basically finger her n play with her clit. I get her off. Made out for alil while longer then proceed to take her home. End of the nite

    2nd: I take her to a sporting event of a team we both like. We actually take public transportation -quicker. And again where we are "relationship" wise were constantly touching/holding. Long story short I get with her constantly throughout the time were together. The holding of each other does feel a bit different - more intimate. On the ride home (bus) were getting again pretty aggressive. Then turn to her and ask her what are we? She kinda rolls her eyes and plays it off like she doesn't understand. I'm like you know boyfriend/girlfriend - is that us? She says you tell me, I kiss her and pull back n say girlfriends good. Nothing of importance happens the rest of the night besides getting with each other.

    I still don't get why she doesn't come over. I've told her numerous times I don't get it.

    I once again thank every1 for their feedback. Funny how a book n these forums can change someone so much.


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