Re: the 2nd message
Well if it had to do with you then my guess is that you stayed in the opener too long without transitioning. You reached the hook point when she said "Hope not." At this point she is receptive to conversation and should transition.
But it could easily be something not having to do with you. Like something distracted her or she got busy. Maybe a meteor hit her house. Only time will tell.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."