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    Default Critique my text messages, positive/negatives

    Hi guys just joined this forum so its my first post/thread.

    So a little background on this chick, she works with me just got transferred from another crew so she could help our crew out, any ways shes HB8, and every guy flirts with her so i kinda ignored her for the first few days until yesterday she started flirting with me and gave me her number here is the conversation, feed is appreciated.

    Me:Lol i just saw your twin minus the cool terminator glasses B)
    Her: lol where?
    Men the bus lol, she looked evil though :-)
    Her: shes not me then!! i dont look evil lol
    Me:Sure you dont terminator (she always is wearing these sun glasses) lol i just walk in at home and my cousin is listening to lady gaga :-( (hb8 loves gaga)
    Her: Terminator =o i am not a man, YES gaga! your cousin is Amazing
    Me: well there was that female cute/evil terminator :-P (i think i negged her) And yea you have alot common with my 11 year old cousin :-)
    Her: Lol i dont care if they are 11 they are awesome, gaga is the best
    Me:Well you kids have school and a bed time so good night :-P btw find out for me when that concert at your school is.
    Her: lol yea i am so tired! and yea ill let you know tommorow :-)


    Thats it, it was my first attempt at gaming her via text so tell me how i can improve! thanks guy

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    Default Re: Critique my text messages, positive/negatives

    it looks pretty solid to me, your doing good, just don't make a habit out of telling her good night too often btw: gaga is amazing don't diss her lol ;p

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    Default Re: Critique my text messages, positive/negatives

    Thanks man appreciate the feedback, this was all done last night so do i wait for her to text me back about the concert or what, i dont know how to follow up? also what should my next steps be? I only get to see her on weekends so should i keep texting her throughout week? And should i keep flirting, i dont know where to take it from here

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    Default Re: Critique my text messages, positive/negatives

    dont text her every day unless she text you first. take a day off from texting her. if she text you wait an hour and make up a story that you were doing something. you have to seem like you have a life out side of the work place.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Critique my text messages, positive/negatives

    i agree with hopeful33, you should text her like three times this week,don't remind her of the concert too much or she will think your needy, just text her 2 days before it to casualy remind her of your plans don't get upset if she flakes, and make sure you don't end up begging for her to go with you. have a good time at the concert with or without her ;D have fun!!!

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    Default Re: Critique my text messages, positive/negatives

    These guys are right, don't text too much.

    As for follow-up, don't think of texting as following up on one long conversation, treat each sitting like a different interaction which MIGHT reference others.

    "Just saw your twin..."

    "Awkward guy at work..."

    "This one bar/club I'm at..."

    I'd suggest going for an insta-date before you build too much comfort via text.
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    Default Re: Critique my text messages, positive/negatives

    Okay guys thanks for the feedback much appreciated.

    So here is what happened last night and i think i kinda messed up in the begining.

    Her: concert is at sept 12 near my university
    Me:thanks buddy, but please dont tell me its exclusive for your school
    Her:i think it is
    Me: nooo! we need to think of a plan so i can sneak in
    Her: lmao hmm i dunno (i realize at this point shes not interested and its going downhill so i had to make it interesting)
    Me: (waited about hour and couple of mins before i texted her again) Buying gift for girls is haard all i can think of is gift cards :-(
    Her: who is it for?? i will help
    Me: my ex girl friend, going to be super awkward lol
    Her: why are you getting her a gift :-P
    Me: her birthday is coming up so and she invited me, as i said its going to be awkward.
    Her: oooh! i see how muh are you going to spend,.i'd perfume is good
    Me: Yeah i was thinking the same, or just not show up ;-)
    her: Aww don't bail lol (converstation was getting boring so i switched it up)
    Me: Lol yea i probably wont, speaking of birthday what am i getting on mine B-)
    Her: A hug lmao! It's priceless
    Me:Pssht... i didn't know hugs are only for special occasions (did i come off too needy??)
    her:Lol just joking!! We'll see if u get the hug lol
    me:Your right i don't accept/give out hugs unless your cool B-)
    Her: i'm cool

    So from there on i just ignored her, once again guys how did i do, ill appreciate any feedback

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    Default Re: Critique my text messages, positive/negatives

    you did ok, but you should have kept the convo going, when she said she's cool, that is a perfect opportunity to tease/neg her about how cool she is. the whole sneek me in thing was a little needy, but she saw it as funny so that actualy didn't come off as bad as you thought it did. just don't gripe about the hug thing, if she gives you one make sure you hold her for a few seconds, if she doesn't then don't worry about it. just make sure you stay in contact with her. you have saved on most of your mistakes so far, keep up the good work


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