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    Default i thought i was doing good

    me: but i do have bragging rights when we win again =) ( we were talking about our football teams)

    her: lol same here

    me: ok ok i guess lol so hey lets get lunch sometime, i have to make sure you actually know something about football =P

    her: ok =)

    me: hmm lets say at 2 monday?

    her: i work till 5:30 everyday except wed, sat, sun.

    me: hmm ok 2:13 chilies wednesday =)

    she didnt respond ... so should i still go or wait for her to respond or what?
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: i thought i was doing good

    Either wait for her to respond, if she doesn't respond within a day then re open the conversation and ignore the fact that she didn't respond, just open normally. Gunsnglory has a really good thread on text game.....this is the link http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...ing-guide.html hope this helps

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    Default Re: i thought i was doing good

    yea i already have that thing saved on here lol but you dont think i did anything wrong in the message ?
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    Default Re: i thought i was doing good

    I don't think so, this is the same problem that I have with follow up game though, but I thought that was exactly how it should be done :/

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    Default Re: i thought i was doing good

    just wish i could get any other ideas if any one has them i thought it was golden maybe its a shit test?
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    Default Re: i thought i was doing good

    She is interested, but she's not investing. A woman who is REALLY interested would figure out a better time rather than let you go through a list of possible times you could meet. I would build some more attraction and get her laughing before trying to set another meet up. Always pay attention to the investment level and calibrate.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: i thought i was doing good

    hmmm ok ill message her today i wont mention the date at all. oh and there is more conversation between her and me i just didnt think it was important to put on here
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    Default Re: i thought i was doing good

    ok she didnt respond to my message today either. so should i give up or just wait a week or what? also is it ok if i like her status if it is the first thing that is on my newsfeed?
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: i thought i was doing good

    Bro chill she could of gotten sloppy drunk, got banged and lost her phone...

    Lol jk.

    Yea wait till she responds and go find another girl chat with so your not bored while you wait. patience brethren, dont be ao hasty.

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    Default Re: i thought i was doing good

    Write to her 'I'm at chillis where are you?' haha

    But seriously I agree with batman that you have to develop an amount of attraction that is irresistible to her. No offense but football is not an irresistible attraction. You want her 100% interested in a date (YOU) and you can hook her in many ways - through the offer of delicious food, great meaningful conversation and stimulating scenarios 'I have a surprise for you' 'I have a secret to tell you' etc. Mystery, intrigue, non threatening.

    At the moment you are only offering her a boysies style football knowledge match and your interest in her, pertaining to the date, is centred around 'does she really know about football?' or 'she supports a different team that looses'. Your challenging her to a masculine game, not giving her an interesting offer that is easy for her to commit to. You want to be on the same team embraced in each others arms. Lift it to a higher level: 'are you a good kisser?' 'are you a good girl or naughty girl?'. I avoid sports and politics with girls even if they are actually into those things. Tap into her primordial femininity. I also avoid dueling them - I leap frog that sh1t and position myself high through humor, being interesting and great stories. I position myself, not as a guy who knows more about football, supports a better team and is going to 'win', but the perfect lover/boyfriend/husband that SHE has to win.

    I would not touch her FB status. Either be persistent and start chatting to her again, rebuilding attraction and ask out when she's laughing and ripe OR Freeze Out for a week with no contact at all (unless she is writing to you abundantly) and then reinitiate with almost an apology 'hey ive been super busy this last week, so much on! But anyway, I still want to meet up - I gotta tell you what happened to me this week!!' continued onto 'I found this great interesting place that has delicous blah blah blah....c'mon it will be fun!!!' If still no response or she flakes delete her from your phone. You can save those stories for another girl and because you offered her an interesting date, it's her loss.

    Ultimately men want a women that makes them feel like a man and women want a man that makes them feel like a women. Don't treat them like a man, an opponent or one of your buddies. Sure you can talk about football in general conversation but if you want to get in her pants or spark a good relationship you need a more powerful emotional Anchor.


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