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    Question My Greatest Challenge - Makes Me Want Her More

    Hi Guys, I'll Keep It short for you. Note: each intiated conversation was parted a few days.

    Was at a Club in the cross. Hooked up with this HB10 twice and second round went for 5-7 minutes, got her number and texte dthe next day with a picture of us kissing lol, started texting, she ended convo, THen i intiated again and she responded but it went dead,

    I then Negged her in my opening and she reacted we'll, massive flirt session of us both negging each other. and then i ended the conversation and got an (x) at the end of her last response.

    I intiated again a few days later, on her photo about the neg i useed earlyier on her facebook.

    She gave me the name T-bag so i took a photo of me t-bagging and actual t-bag lol and tagged her in, she loved that. I ended that convo

    I then intiated a conversation on her satus about her class lol and negged her. and i ended that conversation.

    The real question is, how much space should i give her to intiate, and will she if i leave it long enough.

    What should I Do?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: My Greatest Challenge - Makes Me Want Her More

    I don't have a lot of expertise with HB10s (my comfort zone is more HB8).

    If a girl goes cold via text I've usually had success by initiating during times when she is probably bored (lunch time 11am - 1pm or early evening 4pm - 6pm). Texting a bored girl is like approaching a low-energy set - almost always they will show interest.

    That's all I got, hope it helps
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    Default Re: My Greatest Challenge - Makes Me Want Her More

    Thanks mate, I've realised she responds to negging, but she's a HB10 so she would be getting alot of attention, i'm pretty sure she sleeps until midday so i always wait until 1 - 2 in the arvo, but what i want is her to intiate conversation, we flirt heavy, but im going to withdraw for mabie 3 days and see if i get her to intiate. I may create mystery on facebook.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: My Greatest Challenge - Makes Me Want Her More

    Don't forget your goal Tyrone. Is it to sleep with her, or get her to initiate? I know what it feels like to always initiate. Makes you feel like you're the chaser even if you tease and neg her. Its not all bad though. The woman I'm talking to now is about to be my new LTR and I was initiating for the first few weeks before she would. And this is after I wouldn't talk to her for a week and she'd still never initiate. Then there was a turning point and now she hits me up almost every time. I hit her up about 1/4 times.

    The secret is to qualify her. Show her that she is slowly winning you over, but not yet. I'll reference the same woman: I told her that I think the idea of marriage is great and would love it, but I don't think I'm built for it (which is totally true) and this set me up as a challenge. She literally followed it up with "I'm going to change your mind about marriage." She's been sticking to it and is about to be my LTR.

    So summary: Qualify her to not only show she is slowly winning you over, but also set you up as the challenge she needs to conquer.
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    Default Re: My Greatest Challenge - Makes Me Want Her More

    bro, qualifying, i didnt even consider that, and thats my key game tactic, ahhh yes. do have any good lines aswell as that, i'm afraid marriage is abit foward for our level, this chick games as good as me. so this is my ultimate challenge. i just want her to intiate, that way i can date close. and see where it goes from there

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    I would go with something along the lines of you having trouble opening up to people. And also about cheating. Women can relate to both of these so it's great to make a connection off of this. You will definitely stick out when done right. Two things to keep in mind:

    Calibrate to her. If you don't then you could introduce this conflict too soon and she will look at you like a drama queen. So timing is crucial. Make sure your convo has a more serious tone. This should be a good time rather than if you were playfully bantering and suddenly bring it up.

    Also don't throw everything out at once. Juggler says every judgment a woman makes is further investment of her wanting the conclusion. So if you act as if you don't really want to tell her you have trouble opening up (without dangling it in her face on purpose) then she will increasingly grow curious until you finally tell her. Much more effective than if you told her all at once. Treat like your favorite addicting tv show. Reveal a little at a time and every answer you give her only creates more questions.
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    Default Re: My Greatest Challenge - Makes Me Want Her More

    Okay this is how i'm going to do it.

    Mystery style.

    So what do you have going for you other than you're looks?
    her: what you mean?

    thats a qualifyier and then i'll try get into a deeper conversation about her differences and intrest from that.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: My Greatest Challenge - Makes Me Want Her More

    If you can pull it off great. Women tend to not like it being so direct and vague though. Its your own personal style so I at least would like to share some of mine.

    "Why do you think your last relationship failed?"

    "What's the most romantic thing you've done?"

    "Tell me something adventurous you did lately."

    "How often do you go out and get drunk?"

    "I can't stand people who cheat."

    These are all designed to get her to prove something to you. And if she is attracted....she will. Then you follow up with "Wow I just learned something about you. You're incredible. But don't get a big head. You won't get me that easily."

    This is where having standards really helps you out. You can qualify her based on what you are looking for and if she is attracted she will try to live up to those standards. Guaranteed no LMR if you pull this off. So have a list of no more than 5 traits you're looking for in a woman and qualify her on that.

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    okay i will give it ago, i just think the other one will suit because we have hectic neg flirting bring each other down and that response well with her. i'll give it a couple days and then give one of these ago, proubly number 4. it seems the most subtle, then i'll make her wait for the response so she thinks she may of said something wrong.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: My Greatest Challenge - Makes Me Want Her More

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I know what it feels like to always initiate. Makes you feel like you're the chaser even if you tease and neg her. Its not all bad though. The woman I'm talking to now is about to be my new LTR and I was initiating for the first few weeks before she would. And this is after I wouldn't talk to her for a week and she'd still never initiate. Then there was a turning point and now she hits me up almost every time. I hit her up about 1/4 times.
    I'm in this situation too, I'm with a HB9 6 years older than me for 4 weeks now, we have traveled together f-closed on day 2 but still I always call and she never calls, I've brought up this subject during our conversations few times and she says I don't call because I don't want to disturb you and the last time she said: I hate it when I call someone and they doesn't respond, I don't it may be her game or really she wants to avoid the pain of no-response.
    She is doing her best not to get addicted that's it.
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