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    Coldcope is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default She always want to talk before we even got out

    I met this girl on okc, one of the few who actually gave me the time of day. We messaged back and forth one night then outta the blue asked for my number. Now she always want to talk. Shes in college and calls me when she gets a break, then wants to talk at night when I get home from work. Now I dont know if either she just wants someone to talk to or shes really interested or both. When I ask her out she cant make a commitment cause of her school work. I feel if we keep talkin so much, there aint gonna be anything to talk about on the date. So whats the best approach to go about on this situation? Im also not the greatest phone talker, any help there would be appreciated also.

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    Default Re: She always want to talk before we even got out

    Hmm, she might be interested and just a chatty gal - or she might just want a nice open ear in her friendzone.

    Don't talk to her so much, go for a date.

    Next time she calls, answer the phone, let her chat for maybe like 20 seconds (until the conversation has a definite direction that it's going in which will clearly take longer than a minute) then say something like:

    "Hey listen, I'm actually occpied right now, I want to hear more, I'll be near campus [invent a reason] lets meet up between classes - when do you have a break?"

    She's busy. You're not offering to meet her on campus - you're TELLING her. Meet up with her and see how it goes, look for ioi's and you'll know whether she's chatty or if you're in the friendzone.

    Worst case scenario: you get friendzoned over coffee, then hang around campus to get a few numbers in daygame

    Though someone else on the forum probably has a way of knowing where you stand with her - without meeting up.
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    Default Re: She always want to talk before we even got out

    Thanks for the advice. The meeting on campus part is hard cause I work in the daytime to lol. I dont think she will take the "im occupied" to well. she sent me a text one time wanting to chat, I didnt answer and 20 minutes later she said "well it was nice talking to you." I was trying to get a quick nap between jobs.


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