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    Ilovelamp87 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default AFC needs first date advice after first number close

    2 weekends ago, I successfully got m first number/kiss close with a HB 6.5.. She was with another lady and 2 AFC's..(1 whom was an aquantance.) Anyway, after texting her back and forth since then, I finally asked her to a movie this Saturday. Now because Im still super new to all this stuff, I'm hoping you all can give me some tips so that this doesnt become an akward uncomfortable night!

    *bit of an update, after inviting her to a movie and she said yes. she brought up the when and where we were meeting, which worked for me..(even tho its some 3d fancy thing that is double the price).. Anyways she just texted me again offering to pay for herself and informed me that some of her friends would be there.. Now I was already nervous about this, now my shyness/nervousness has gone up by a 1000.. She I reschedual or what:

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    Default Re: AFC needs first date advice after first number close

    Be as relaxed as possible( opposite of nervous and unconfident). Talk as if you are old friends builds comfort. Be persitent, use Kino and read her for ioi's if you do this correctly a kiss close should be in order. Break a leg Bud!
    Last edited by pua_wannabe; 09-12-2012 at 08:06 PM. Reason: grammar
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Ilovelamp87 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: AFC needs first date advice after first number close

    Thanks pua_wannabe.. Being relaxed is going to be pretty hard considering tho; now I'll now not only be seeing a movie with a chick I've met once at a bar, but with some of her friends. I'm kinda leaning on canceling now.. This movie thing is supposed to be on Friday (not Saturday,) so I only have a couple days to decide.

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    Default Re: AFC needs first date advice after first number close

    i agree with pua wannabe, but i would like to add that you need to use your manners, your mannerisms can be either a dhv, or a dlv. just depending on how good they are. if ever you get nervous just excuse yourself to the restroom and recite "i be calm cool and collective, i am doing fine and i will have a good night" this will help you to reframe

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    Default Re: AFC needs first date advice after first number close

    go to the movie!!!, the worst thing that can possibly happen is that you can learn what not to do on your next date with your next girl

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    Default Re: AFC needs first date advice after first number close

    Well its a great chance to win the friends over, they approve of you and you win her admiration. I can see why you would be nervous but take a wingman, that will help you score and keep the friends entertained, someone you trust!!! Let him know the game plan. Work on isolating the target after building rapport all around. Dont forget negs!!! Thanks Meteora I spaced on that!
    Last edited by pua_wannabe; 09-12-2012 at 09:28 PM. Reason: acknowledgement
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