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    megaman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Stuck...I keep hitting this wall, too desperate?

    Ok so I used this opener I got from the forum on okcupid. Worked like a damn charm, I had the messages flowing right and her going along with the act. Got her number last night and texted her mine. Flirting heavy back n forth the rest of the night then I ended the convo (pretty well of I may add - told her she was taking away from my beauty sleep, didn't say anything about talking to her the next day, just said gnight). She emoticoned a kiss and a smile after my last text and before I left for worked I sent her a good morning text. We chatted up pretty steadily all morning and then her responses got more an more delayed. So I followed suit...her last text was hour n half after mine so I waited hour n forty five before responded. Ultimately yielding no return response from her. I haven't sent anything since my last, I've resisted much temptation lol.

    So my problem lately seems like everytime I #close a girl and start texting it falls off somewhere and I'm left with a dead number. I noticed I have a habit to send a couple sentences in my texts while going through convos - do I shorten them? Am I coming off too quick, too desperate? Really frustrating ha, this used to never happen to me but due to some events in the last year I've been stumbling all over my game. So what's up guys?......haaaaa go fukin figure, as I'm typing this out she texts me.....am I too impatient? I can tell this one could shape out to be a keeper do all advice appreciated as always.

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    Default Re: Stuck...I keep hitting this wall, too desperate?

    it sounds to me like you are smothering her, don't text her so much!!!! the good morning text was unnecisary and at the very least annoyed her. texting her for hours on end is defenately a dlv, a good rule of thumb is to never have a text convo more than an hour or 10 messages sent from you. you should also throw a day in between your text convo's. texting her too often will only come off as needy, don't always respond to her texts as well

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    Default Re: Stuck...I keep hitting this wall, too desperate?

    Ahhh thank you my dude....it's always the simplest things. Good advice, definitely falling into dlv habits lately. First step to fixing a problem is figuring it out!

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    Default Re: Stuck...I keep hitting this wall, too desperate?

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

    also this should help you to avoid some future texting problems


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