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    jaoatp is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I get a ton of responses from cute girls, but it still sucks

    because they are all either grotesquely poor conversationalists, or unwilling to put in even the teensiest ounce of effort. I always conclude my messages with open-ended questions, and usually just get very dull answers to those questions in return... and maybe a "how about you?" tacked onto the end if I'm lucky. Seriously--these girls respond as if they think I'm surveying them to complete some sort of research project. I know some of you are thinking "well then you must sound like you're surveying them..." but that's not the case at all. I very much go out of my way to be playful/engaging, and have a ton of quite original material in my profile (which I will not link to for anonymity purposes). But of course, almost none of these girls ever give any indication that they've read the profile.

    Sorry that this is more of a rant than a request for advice... I'm really just hoping to see if a lot of guys can relate to this experience, or if it's just me. (I use OKCupid & POF, by the way--in case it matters)

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    Default Re: I get a ton of responses from cute girls, but it still sucks

    I see the same thing. A lot of their profiles also sound the exact same, i like to travel, have fun, but enjoy a night in watching movies too blah blah blah....

    I feel like these girls are much better in person though, just have trouble communicating over text/email.

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    Default Re: I get a ton of responses from cute girls, but it still sucks

    I almost feel like there could be a correlation there! I mean think about it for a second, if she was super ecstatic and vivid in her responses doesn't the question of how long she has been talking to someone via messages creep into your mind?... Perhaps its not a bad thing that her responses seem dull because maybe in real life she is actually quite enjoyable to be around? Also take into account its going well as long as they keep responding to your messages!

    One last thing to think about is the messages that your are sending, are they dull or played out? has she heard them one too many times from 10 other guys? food for thought my friend try and spice some of them up, experiment. I hope this helps
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
    ― Flannery O'Connor

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    Rando9009 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I get a ton of responses from cute girls, but it still sucks

    I would say this is totally normal. Most "normal" attractive girls are very short in most of their messages online. Just the fact that the're responding to you means your doing something right... as they ignore 80% or more of all messages they get. I like to tryto reccomend to everyone to move as quickly as you can to getting their number (smoothly and within reason) and just use the messages online as a tool to get that number.

    If you dont soon enough, you wont. And online dating is all about getting the number, and getting them in person. Once you have the number, its not that hard to get them to meet up with you for a drink or coffee.

    So dont worry so much about their responses online. Ive had HB10's say 2 word answers back after my paragraph messages, and then give me their number.


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