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    Default No more reply of her on an online dating site... I'm stuck!

    Hey guys! My first post here!

    Alright I sent a msg to a girl on an online dating site and she stopped answering me. The thing for her is that she is older than me by 1 year. (Which I don't care it's only 1 friggin year lol)

    Here's what I wrote:
    Me: You’re adorable. I’m adopting you as my little sister so we can drink kool-aid and climb trees like monkeys. Afterwards we can star in a commercial about how awesome adoption is and you can give a really sad face to the camera but then I come around the corner with a pitcher of kool-aid and your smile turns into a party.

    Her: Sounds like a plan... except I'm older than you!

    Me: Of like what… 1 year? Pfff My producers don't mind as long as you are cool and play the game. I heard that at the end they're gonna give us some free exciting stuff but I couldn't hear what is it going to be sadly. But hey who cares!

    I thought she would reply back but it's not the case. So I want to send her a "back spin" just to kick back the conversation. Any clue? I'm kinda stuck.

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    Default Re: No more reply of her on an online dating site

    Wait for a reply. If she doesn't reply send her an open-ended message tomorrow! go from there
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: No more reply of her on an online dating site

    Thanks! What do you mean by an open-ended msg?

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    Default Re: No more reply of her on an online dating site

    Personally I'd wait more than just a day or two. I'm no expert, but what I've read on text game is that they are pretty slow responders, and it's not like text messaging where you know shes getting them.

    I had the same issue, but what I've learned, especially over weekends is that the sites slow down. Remember, she has to log onto the site. Personally I don't go on the, during the weekend much because I'm out working on my game in field, or doing something fun (except this weekend which I'm working the whole thing). I'd wait until the week. Don't make it seem like on a weekend, when you should be out with friends, you're not inside checking a dating site. Who knows, maybe she's camping or on a trip herself.

    Just my 2 cents. Good luck brother.

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    Default Re: No more reply of her on an online dating site

    Quote Originally Posted by Julietdelta View Post
    Personally I'd wait more than just a day or two. I'm no expert, but what I've read on text game is that they are pretty slow responders, and it's not like text messaging where you know shes getting them.

    I had the same issue, but what I've learned, especially over weekends is that the sites slow down. Remember, she has to log onto the site. Personally I don't go on the, during the weekend much because I'm out working on my game in field, or doing something fun (except this weekend which I'm working the whole thing). I'd wait until the week. Don't make it seem like on a weekend, when you should be out with friends, you're not inside checking a dating site. Who knows, maybe she's camping or on a trip herself.

    Just my 2 cents. Good luck brother.
    Aight! In fact, she went on my profile for a second time after I sent her my last msg so I'm sure she probably saw it but I'll wait till monday. If she doesn't reply by then any tip on how I could push things forward? I though I would keep playing the game for 1 or 2 more msg and then go for the number if all goes well...

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    Default Re: No more reply of her on an online dating site

    "Open-ended questions are questions designed to encourage a full, meaningful answer using the subject's own knowledge and/or feelings" Julietdelta is right waiting one or today's is much better than just a night. Work that number, Build some comfort and ask her out on a date! http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html This might help you a tad!
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: No more reply of her on an online dating site

    Ok thanks! I'll let you know how it goes! Now I just need to think about my next reply...

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    Default Re: No more reply of her on an online dating site

    Alright so if I don't get a reply by monday here's what I'll wrote:
    "Alright firecracker… What flavour do you like? Strawberry kiwi or Peach mango? I opt for the Peach mango as I don't want my teeth to be all red like a vampire and scare the kids in our commercial! By the way, I saw that you really like to travel so if all goes well for this one we're gonna have an opportunity to go in another country for a new casting which is going to be sooo cool! What was one of your favourite trips?"

    How does that sound?

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    Default Re: No more reply of her on an online dating site

    Sounds good but its long. I would recommend cutting it in half, once you have her attention with the first part...fire off the second part!

    Part1-"Alright firecracker… What flavour do you like? Strawberry kiwi or Peach mango? I opt for the Peach mango as I don't want my teeth to be all red like a vampire and scare the kids in our commercial!(Love how creative you got here)

    Part2- I saw that you really like to travel, if all goes well we're gonna have an opportunity to go into another country for a new casting! I dont know if I have a favorite trip, do you Dork butt?

    Great job on the message, I cut some of the unnecessary stuff off the original part2 I hope you don't mind! keep it exciting and the messaging should keep coming consistently at least until you get that Number Close. Good Luck
    Last edited by pua_wannabe; 09-16-2012 at 12:41 AM. Reason: adding
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    Default Re: No more reply of her on an online dating site

    Quote Originally Posted by pua_wannabe View Post
    Part1-"Alright firecracker… What flavour do you like? Strawberry kiwi or Peach mango? I opt for the Peach mango as I don't want my teeth to be all red like a vampire and scare the kids in our commercial!(Love how creative you got here)
    Thanks!

    Quote Originally Posted by pua_wannabe View Post
    Part2- I saw that you really like to travel, if all goes well we're gonna have an opportunity to go into another country for a new casting! I dont know if I have a favorite trip, do you Dork butt?
    Hahaha Dork butt in my fourth msg to her? :P

    Quote Originally Posted by pua_wannabe View Post
    Great job on the message, I cut some of the unnecessary stuff off the original part2 I hope you don't mind! keep it exciting and the messaging should keep coming consistently at least until you get that Number Close. Good Luck
    Feedback is always appreciated so no I really don't mind! Thanks! I'll let you know how it goes.
    Last edited by Geno; 09-16-2012 at 12:53 AM. Reason: quotes


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