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    Default mixed signals or overthinking?

    so ive been dating this girl for over a month now we met of a dating site and we have been seeing each other weekly - when i meet up with her we get on really well the 1st date we had a meal which went really well, the 2nd date we went to see a movie and the 3rd date i got her flowers and picked her up and we went to a park and had a picnic, and the last date we went on went really well we had another meal and then came back to mine for a movie which we snuggled up for! after the 2nd date she asked me to kiss her so since then we have ended each date with a kiss, we are meant to be meeting up this wednesday as she wants me to meet her parents and friends its just theres been a few things that bother me in between the dates which give me a bad feeling - first of all she doesn't like using the phone so i don't call her which means texting is the main form of communication we normally talk a little every day until she stops replying, rarely does she text me first and sometimes i don't think i would hear from her at all if i don't text her, i have never overtext her though maybe im over thinking things but i would have thought that she would want to text me too. i just the impression that i like her more than she likes me which leads me on to the next thing after she kissed me on the 2nd date i thought i didn't need my dating profile any more so i deleted it, any way she told me during the 3rd date that she had as well as she didn't need it any more which made me happy, however i done something i probably shouldn't have done which was check to make sure she had and she hasn't and she still is using it as it says when she was last on-line i wish i hadn't of checked, cause now its making me think all sorts of things i do realise we have only met each other 4 times i just don't see why she would lie obviously i cant say anything to her as she will know i checked on her just seems there are so many mixed signals here and i don't know what to do just wanted some advice!

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    Default Re: mixed signals or overthinking?

    yeah looks like youre slowly but surely losing her. Ive been in the same exact position. Youre probably acting a bit like a beta which is causing this. And youre definitely overdueing it by overinvesting (buying her all this stuff when just meeting her)
    You are overthinking slightly but thats logical since she's giving off bad signs.
    I would just kick it back a few notches, throw up ur dating profile again, and work on your text game. Dont initiate that much anymore

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    Default Re: mixed signals or overthinking?

    do you think i can still save it she was the one to text me today? she told me last week she was sorry for not texting cause she was having trouble charging her phone with her charger but yeah i get what your saying too where can i read what a beta is?


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