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  1. #1
    thegreatpne6690 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Met at party; need to resist responding so quickly!!

    I'm just getting into this whole PUA thing and it's fantastic. My confidence has improved a little bit, and I'm not getting rejected as often. However, I've hit a snag with a girl I met at a party and I need some help!

    Basically we met, added her on FB but now I can't stop replying at a lightning rate! And when I do reply, she usually does the typical girl thing (lol, blah, blah, etc) and nothing more.

    How do I get her to open up a bit more without coming off as a desperate loser?

    Thanks for all the help!

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    Lex S is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Met at party; need to resist responding so quickly!!

    Do you talk to her on the IM function? Do you use your computer or phone?

    If you're using your phone to IM (Or text), the temptation to answer quickly is there. I have an iPhone, and when I received a text or IM it'll make a sound/vibrate, and then a couple minutes later will send me a reminder sound/vibration. I always wait until after the second buzz to send a text. It also gives you more time to think over a good response.

    As far as on a computer, see if there's a way to turn the IM noise off. You'll be less likely to jump to the IM every time she sends you an IM. Otherwise, put a movie on or play a video game, anything to distract you and keep your attention away from the keyboard.

    Also, if the conversation is slowing down, take a break. If she's interested she'll IM you back eventually. Women hate silence, so let her break awkward silences.


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