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    Default Texting seemed great, then she send a cancel saying im too rude?

    I msged a chick on facebook and get her number and have been texting her for a few days. We were supposed to meet up today. I wanted to finalize so I told her we should meet at 7 and I can pick her up if she doesn't want to dust off her Fiat and take it for a spin. (Shes European so I made a reference that she drives a Fiat to be clever lol)

    She responded with LOL and I asked her if I was so funny that she forgot to answer me! She responds with "You are a little rude lol" and second text "Having second thoughts, txt me later"

    I don't know why this is. I have said some things to poke at her a bit, like about her being 5'4" which isn't that short but whatever.

    I am thinking I should say "Oh, I was just joking with you. It's ok maybe another time." and then just NC?

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    Default Re: Texting seemed great, then she send a cancel saying im too rude?

    No, don't do that. (That = "needy")

    I can't tell for sure what triggered the resistance, based just from what you shared, but you don't want to fail a "Sh1t Test" if that's what she's doing.

    (Is it possible you were a little too cocky overall, during the past few days?)

    Anyway I'd say, "Wow, you find the strangest things humorous! It's kinda quirky, but it's cute. I'll holla at you again sometime."

    This way you're complementing her, but also calling her out/negging her. AND, you're re-gaining control of the communication. (All while being respectful, non-needy & Alpha)



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    Default Re: Texting seemed great, then she send a cancel saying im too rude?

    It is possible that you may have been rude, but I doubt it. I would guess that you need to build more attraction before asking her for a meet up again. When she gets to the point where she is asking questions about you as a man and you are both open about your interest in each other then that's a good reason to meet up. Whenever a woman has to ask WHY you want to meet up, then the problem may lie with qualification.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Texting seemed great, then she send a cancel saying im too rude?

    Thanks guys, I ended up responding before your answers. I said "I guess I am haha, maybe another time." I didn't want to apologize or anything so I went with that basic response.

    I just was sent "Why you got that attitude" and i responded "Huh what attitude" I guess she wanted me to try and change her mind instead of saying bye bye.

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    Default Re: Texting seemed great, then she send a cancel saying im too rude?

    LOL I am not sure what happened here. She ended up texting "ah fark maybe its just hard to tell thru txt, what r u doing now"

    Women play a funny game...

    EDIT: ...and now I am going to her house and shes cooking kebabs... I guess I played my cards right! I wonder if she had double plans and I'm the back up

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    Default Re: Texting seemed great, then she send a cancel saying im too rude?

    Well whatever the case is, when you get there you have the opportunity to work on the flirting & attraction.

    So, even if you may have been "option #2" it doesn't even matter at that point; the ball is in your court.


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