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    M3RL1N is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl seems interested, but doesn't initiate any convos

    So I've been on 2 dates with this girl, I feel like I've played everything pretty dang good so far, but when she texts messages me she never initiates a conversation, normally I would think that maybe shes not into me, but don't think that's the case. I know that she can be shy sometimes, could that be it, should i just take the reins and initiate conversations all the time? I don't want to come off as too needy or anything. Haven't talked to her in a few days,

    Also she will just let a conversation die if i don't respond with anything, its like she expects a 1 to 1 response. Really confused.

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    Default Re: Girl seems interested, but doesn't initiate any convos

    Ive found that some girls are just like this and I have had exactly the same experience. This girl I know never ever initiates conversations but once I do she will write all day. It bothers me a little I suppose because I would like to get her to say hello to me out of the blue...and maybe I could even ask to do exactly that. But it doesn't matter because when we are together in person it's like a porn film. There are other girls who are always initiating me and to be honest I sometimes do not initiate with them so they probably think the same as me haha.

    People communicate via texts in so many different ways you can't put too much emphasis on it. It's real life communion that counts.

    As long as she responds and you can keep it going. Many girls, as I said in another post, unfortunately are actually really boring. That's one Ace every guy has up his sleeves. Men tend to lead adventurous outward lives, women tend to lead inward 'nesting' 'homey' lives. You have to search hard for the really dynamic girls. Some girls I write to a lot, others not much at all but we might see each other in person the same amount and to the same quality. That's why its good to have a bunch of different girls in your life. One might satisfy you activity wise, another sexually, another as a literary buddy etc.

    Think of it like a bunch if boxes to be ticked:
    - she responds to your text period. Tick, good girl
    - she responds positively to your texts. Tick, good girl
    - she actually laughs at your humor, finds you interesting or thinks you are handsome. Tick, good girl
    - she accepts to a date. Tick, good girl
    - she actually shows up. Tick!
    - she has made an effort and enjoys the date. Tick tac toe
    - she agrees to a second date and turns up. Big huge Nike swoosh tick. Kiss her! (this is where you are my friend so you should be kissing her and not worrying about texts!!! She would not go out on a second date if she didn't like you!)
    - she kisses you back. Another huge tick
    - she sees you more and you sleep together. Tick tick tick tick
    - she wants to see you again. You are a good lover and partner. Tick tock tick tock

    Some girls fall into your lap and you don't have to do anything, other girls you have to do everything. It's really what effort your willing to put in and being a good PUA just streamlines all that process. Don't concentrate on the first tick - move forward to get all the other boxes ticked

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    Default Re: Girl seems interested, but doesn't initiate any convos

    Thanks for the advice, working my way through the list! Don't know why I was hung up on this.


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