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    Default Girl lost interest ? Need good response

    Some background info:
    Met this girl HB9 through a friend of mine. We all went on vacation to my parents condo. Everything went fine and we started chatting on facebook, during our stay we did not talk much. On the last day we started talking in the pool about our friend who was kinda rude and could have been much more fun if she stayed longer. (I stayed for 2 more weeks) We also talked about her coming back in december. She sent me some texts about she missing MIA and wanting to comeback and me being her personal guide. Now she is back home and she is hanging out with her ex again.

    Me:
    Monday

    Hey there ;p
    I know a real cool girl, but she also has a less cool side to her ... She always responds so slooooowly.
    Do you have any advice ?


    She:
    Wednesday

    Heeeeeeeeeeey
    Are you not bored over there because the most awesome girl is no longer there?? So you must be bored to death, so I suggest you coming home and finally start studying ! I am proud of you Mr. XXX!
    Hehehehe frustrating! I randomly felt in love with MIA; I want to go every year!!
    And that cool girl probably does not like you that much when she responds that slow :s Dont take it personal, you are okay!!
    suppose you meant me (cool=me) LOL now I am done being so awesome! I am always busy and I say to myself I'll respond later but it takes a while, I am sorry cutiepie, you are a really cute pie 🍰🎂
    When are you back? Have you been shopping a lot?
    Oh and are you already super tanned? ;p
    This is the end ! Tomorrow I have a big test wish me luck !! Sleeptight & have fun !!! xxx


    Sh1t Test or just not interested anymore ?
    Can you guys help me come up with a good response

    Thanks !

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    Lightbulb Re: Girl lost interest ? Need good response

    And that cool girl probably does not like you that much when she responds that slow :s Dont take it personal, you are okay!!
    suppose you meant me .....Interesting remark by her. she displays lack of interest and then throws you an ioi. My recommendation: use some Push Pull techniques
    When playing the game, always live on the edge. You always get rejected by every girl you don't approach.

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    Default Re: Girl lost interest ? Need good response

    I don't know. She seems like she is investing a lot into this conversation. She could just be busy. The key to text game is playful persistence.

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    Default Re: Girl lost interest ? Need good response

    Quote Originally Posted by instad View Post
    Heeeeeeeeeeey
    Are you not bored over there because the most awesome girl is no longer there?? So you must be bored to death, so I suggest you coming home and finally start studying ! I am proud of you Mr. XXX!
    Hehehehe frustrating! I randomly felt in love with MIA; I want to go every year!!
    And that cool girl probably does not like you that much when she responds that slow :s Dont take it personal, you are okay!!
    suppose you meant me (cool=me) LOL now I am done being so awesome! I am always busy and I say to myself I'll respond later but it takes a while, I am sorry cutiepie, you are a really cute pie ����
    When are you back? Have you been shopping a lot?
    Oh and are you already super tanned? ;p
    This is the end ! Tomorrow I have a big test wish me luck !! Sleeptight & have fun !!! xxx
    Seems like she's lost interest - it's hard to hook a HB9. I think she likes you as a friend (and I say that instead of "in the friendzone") because the FZ (at least to me) implies that she is disinterested and has limited you to friendship, while "likes you as a friend" means that she actually does like you - just in a non-romantic way.

    And here's what I recommend: do like Edgemaster suggested and push/pull. Do it playfully and persistently like Waylansmithers recommends. Keep her guessing, maybe text back something like:
    "Lol, no it's just this girl I met in a coffee shop - she takes like four hours to respond to stuff. But yeah I am pretty tan xD"

    She doesn't actually know for sure whether you were talking about her or not - pretend like you weren't, work a Jealousy Plotline, and MOST importantly - start thinking of her in terms of her personality, ability in conversation, her interestingness, her intelligence - basically, for your frame and innergame, assess her value based on non-beauty attributes. Doing so will help you game her (being that she's a HB9 she'll be hard to dhv over).

    Also read this
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR


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