Hey, im gonna keep this short. A girl im seeing is also seeing other guys, (im also seeing other girls but she doesnt know that). I tried to arrange meeting up with her on a certain day because im always busy. she says that she has a date. i said she should cancel as im way more fun (in a jokey and serious way). she says she cant cancel but will text me soon when she is free to meet up.
I am not sure what option to choose. i could either/and:
1) not say anything to her, and wait for her to tell me she is free and meet up with her
2) not say anything to her, wait for her to tell me she is free and say that i cant, i have a date. then offer to do something exciting with her weekend like go to the zoo.
3)one of the above and try and tool the guy through her via text. maybe make him seem boring, or overhype the guy to make him crash when they go out.
my goal is obviously to see this girl exclusivly.
Any examples of text messages with option 3 would be great.
Im also interested in any other options