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    Default Not enough kino, not enough sexual tension :(

    My date on Wednesday went well, but I definitely could've went along with more sexual Tension. I think I might be trying to build Rome in a day here but bear with me.

    She took a drink from a straw and said she liked straws, so I asked her is it because she likes putting her lips on things. She was surprised at this and said yeah, so I asked her to analyze why I drink mine without a straw, and she said something about eating pussy. I laughed and said this kinda hole would need a big kelbasa (were both polish she got a kick out of it). I wish I escalated that more but such is life!

    There were some other minor things, she mentioned how her as is getting bigger from doing squats and I said yeah, I noticed when you were going to the washroom, to which she answered I figured you would. Caught me off guard, I just laughed.

    The only Kino was the hug at the end of the night. Initially at the beginning I went in for it and she said no sorry, I don't do hugs. I asked her if we're going to treat this like a business transaction and laughed it off. Luckily I went in for the hug at the end of the night, which she was alright with.

    She also invited me to go hang out on the weekend, mentioning she was really nervous and I'll get to see her in a more comfortable zone that way. Shes going to some bars with friends but I have 2 concerns.

    A) I won't know a fucking soul! This is going to be super needy when I focus on her all night. That is, unless I get to meet her friends at a predrink and get good with the other ladies she knows to win them over too. How can I deal with this scenario?

    B) Lack of 1 on 1 time. I feel like this is throwing me out of my zone and giving her total control because I am in the lions den now. There might be dudes protective of her. Who knows what other curve balls will be thrown. How do I show interest in a crowd of people in the event I don't get the 1 on 1 time at certain intervals.

    Throw some stuff at if you feel you have some ideas. Thanks for your time!

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    Default Re: Not enough kino, not enough sexual tension :(

    Never get too excited and continue to beat a sexual topic into
    the ground as it will show that you only have one thing on your
    mind and or that you view sex in an immature way. If you calmly
    without much notice change the topic it will demonstrate that
    sex is not a big deal to you and that you view it as just another
    part of life. This will make her feel more at ease with being
    sexual and discussing sexual topics with you.

    Just because a woman turns you down for a hug at the beginning
    of the date does not mean that you should not try to touch her
    until the very end of the date. Women like guys who keep trying
    and do not get easily dissuaded from what they want in life as
    long as you are not too grabby and not only focussed on your own
    needs.

    Do not worry too much about her friends, just have a good time
    with them. She wants to see that you can get along with her friends.
    Do not try to be the center of attention and do not try to one up anyone.
    Be a chill friendly guy and chances are that they will like you. You do not
    need to do anything else to impress a woman's friends, its really that
    easy.

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    Default Re: Not enough kino, not enough sexual tension :(

    Quote Originally Posted by konman View Post
    She also invited me to go hang out on the weekend, mentioning she was really nervous and I'll get to see her in a more comfortable zone that way. Shes going to some bars with friends but I have 2 concerns.

    A) I won't know a farking soul! This is going to be super needy when I focus on her all night. That is, unless I get to meet her friends at a predrink and get good with the other ladies she knows to win them over too. How can I deal with this scenario?

    B) Lack of 1 on 1 time. I feel like this is throwing me out of my zone and giving her total control because I am in the lions den now. There might be dudes protective of her. Who knows what other curve balls will be thrown. How do I show interest in a crowd of people in the event I don't get the 1 on 1 time at certain intervals.

    Throw some stuff at if you feel you have some ideas. Thanks for your time!
    This is actually perfect. Assume there will be no kissing, hugging, sex the night you are out with her friends. Concentrate on this being your chance at ultimate social proof. Good LTR's almost always involve comfort levels with friends and family so to be good with women you also have to be good with their friends and family. I know guys who are aces with getting women into bed but have trouble keeping relationships because they are too gutless to involve themselves in friends and family.

    I suggest to relish the opportunity to meet new people. They are not lions but her friends. She is a) placing a fair amount of investment in you to actually invite her in front of her friends which means she potentially likes you a lot and b) if you win over her friends she will give you what you want.

    And it's quite easy. Firstly a group of girls are going to chat endlessly about whatever they chat about and all you have to do is listen and act confident and calm. Dont focus solely on your girl like you are a bat. Get to know some other girls, be happy and enjoy the night. All you need do is not make any drastic mistakes or try too hard and you will pass her tests and her friends will all be saying 'cool guy, go for it'. You dont need one on one time. Save that for a date after her friends get together and I bet you she will put out for you if you handled yourself well. Ive been on heaps of second (and even first dates) where the girl brings a friend along. I know the deal so I don't get pissed off or anything. I charm both of them and it's all green lights. Its a fairly common thing for women to test you in front of their friends so get used to it and get really good at it. Use it completely and utterly to your advantage. I have learn to relish opportunities like this because it's a huge indicator the girl thinks highly of me. I am fairly certain this girl likes you a lot so dont panic and have fun. Drink and be merry but dont get drunk. Good luck


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