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    TheShyOne91 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Alot of stretchmarks, insecure is only my first name

    Ok so im a 21 year old guy, im still a virgin due to my rappid growth and that causd be to get lots and lots of stretchmarks

    i got them on my shoulders, lats,lowerback,ass,w aist, their all faded to white by still very noticable in bright light

    I was forced to spend 3 summer vacations inside playing computer games, everytime some friends would ask me to go party or go to the beach i would allways come up with excuses, 2 years ago i decided to join the gym to make my stretchmarks not look so horrible, i didnt get anymore stretchmarks but i still dont feel more confident than i did befor, i gaind over 45lbs of muscle, i was very dedicated to get myself in better shape.

    Im 6.5ft 215lbs, not overweight iv got an aesthetic looking body, and above avrage looking face

    havent had a girlfriend in 4 years, i had to break it up when we got to the part of having sex, and once again i came up with some retarded excuse

    6 months ago i started to get suicidal toughts, i cant keep going like this for much longer, i dont know what to do

    And its all because of these fu**ing stretchmarks, im tearing up as im writing this.


    The stretchmark on my shoulder i cant cear less about, i actually think they look pretty cool, the ones on my lats arent really noticable, the once im woried about are the once on my waist,lowerback and ass, the ass is coverd in small white ones , same with the lower back

    How much do girls really care ?

    excuse me if there is any miss spelling or grammatical errors ...

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    Default Re: Alot of stretchmarks, insecure is only my first name

    Hey mate,

    I seriously wouldn't worry too much. Girls have insecurities too. If a girl asks come up with a story or make a light hearted comment.

    These thoughts you've been having is not good. Go to the beach, if your in good shape this should give you more confidence . It might be an idea to speak to someone about those thoughts.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Alot of stretchmarks, insecure is only my first name

    hey man, first of all, DON'T EVER THINK about suicide.. its never the solution.. we only have this life, so don't waste it..

    secondly, try not thinking about the negatives you have in your body, but think of positive things you have..

    well i never seen you, but i can tell you that if you have these,
    aesthetic looking body, and above avrage looking face
    girls will look at you immediately without you even needing to say a word or anything.

    secondly.. you named 5 parts of your body which you have stretch marks on.. 2 of which are not noticable.. remaining only 3 places.. if you go to the beach, im sure you are going to wear at least a speedo, so that would cover the ass, = only 2 places left, and since you said you gained 45lbs of muscle (congratualtions btw), girls will notice the abs and not the strech marks on your waist..

    come on bro, just try going to the beach sometimes, girls will look at you, and that should boost your confidence a lot!


    as for
    How much do girls really care ?
    THEY WONT EVEN NOTICE THEM, since you have that masculine body (im speakin from experience and i only gained about 25lbs of muscle..) so you are way better and girls will notice you more!.. plus, every girl will have her insecurities aswell


    remember, whenever you start thinking of something negative you might have, immediately think of something positive!
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Alot of stretchmarks, insecure is only my first name

    You may be suffering from BDD, otherwise known as
    Body Dysmorphic Disorder. It is a disorder where
    perceived or minor blemishes on the body cause the person
    great emotional distress to point of severe depression
    and or avoidance of others. Usually these
    blemishes are inconsequential or even unnoticeable
    to everyone except the person with BDD.

    I have stretch marks from when I was bodybuilding
    heavily and they have never caused me any problems
    with women.

    The fact that you are experiencing suicidal thoughts
    means that you should seek out a licensed professional
    experienced in diagnosing and treating the issues you
    are going thru because your life does have value. With
    the proper help you can get thru this and start feeling
    better about yourself.


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