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    Default Girl asks me to hangout but doesn't shoot a followup?

    So I was supposed to meet up with this girl a second time this weekend. Yesterday I asked her where she was planning on going this weekend, because she said I should go to the bars with her and some friends. She said she probably going to a party Sat and downtown Sun. No invite. I was kind of confused but I didn't beg to tag along or anything.

    Today she was posting on FB about someone going to UFC with her last minute, now again I really don't want to be the one to ask to go with her. I assume if she wants me there shed shoot me a line. In all honesty I don't want to hang out with her and her friends, only her but if shes flaking on the invite then I am thinking I should just stop talking to her.

    Is there something going on here I am unaware of?

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    Cool Re: Girl asks me to hangout but doesn't shoot a followup?

    Quote Originally Posted by konman View Post
    So I was supposed to meet up with this girl a second time this weekend. Yesterday I asked her where she was planning on going this weekend, because she said I should go to the bars with her and some friends. She said she probably going to a party Sat and downtown Sun. No invite. I was kind of confused but I didn't beg to tag along or anything.

    Today she was posting on FB about someone going to UFC with her last minute, now again I really don't want to be the one to ask to go with her. I assume if she wants me there shed shoot me a line. In all honesty I don't want to hang out with her and her friends, only her but if shes flaking on the invite then I am thinking I should just stop talking to her.

    Is there something going on here I am unaware of?
    wtf? why are you waiting for her to ask you out? she is hinting that she wants you to take her to a place like the ones she is mentioning you need to step up to the plate and tell her about something interesting you are going to do and ask her if she wants to "tag along" don't stop talking to her, at least you can learn a few things from her if you try to make a move this could be a great learning experience for you if you allow it to be!
    best of luck
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    Default Re: Girl asks me to hangout but doesn't shoot a followup?

    My ex and i were habitual "stay in, have some wine and dinner" types for the past 2.5 years ahaha so I am a little bit rusty!

    I totally should've said something like "I've been trying to get someone to go with me to that event, lets get tickets!"

    Would have been a perfect opportunity!

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    Default Re: Girl asks me to hangout but doesn't shoot a followup?

    instead of saying "i'm tryimg to get someone to go with me" (to AFC for my taste) say "hey one of my friends bailed on me, so i have an extra ticket if you want to go" (how i would say it)


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