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    Default Got the number... what next?

    Hi guys, first post here!

    Hopefully this topic isn't as generic as the title might suggest.

    I was at a music festival yesterday. I was drunk. At some point towards the end I turned around and my eyes met this girl's. She was Canadian and we talked for a bit.

    Then my friends said that we had to go. I got my phone out and said to her 'whack your number in this'. She did so. I asked if she going to the next day of the festival (today), can't remember what she said. She asked me if I was going to the after party that night (I wasn't).

    We only talked for a short time.

    Basically I need to work out what to do next. To me, asking if I was going to the after party was an ioi - if she wasn't interested she wouldn't have asked. On the other hand we only talked for a short time - was she just giving the number to shut me up and get rid?

    The fact that I was drunk (I wasn't doing any game related stuff and it wasn't in my mind at all. I am an extreme novice to all this and if I had tried something deliberately I would have failed) means that I can't remember much of what was said/done.

    I've heard that texts should go with some kind of inside joke made in the conversation. All I remember talking about was taking the piss, saying that she was a Canadan from Canadia.

    So as the title says... where am I going with this, or rather, what should I be doing with this? I guess the really big issue I'm finding in my head is will she even remember? I guess the only way to find out is to try.

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    Default Re: Got the number... what next?

    Yes it was an ioi, and yea I think you got a solid number

    I've had some mixed responses on following up. To be honest, 2/3 of my numbers flake, so it's one thing I've been workig on

    Was actually talking with a few fellow puas last night including a girl pua, she was adamant on waiting 3 days

    Open with the Canadian thing

    Hey Canadian, too bad I couldn't make the party, but x is coming up this weekend lets check it out

    That's my suggestion, but like I said most of my numbers have flaked. Been working on seeding dates in there better, I got 2 more last night and seeded the idea of local comedy shows, have a firm date with one and the other already text opened me this am, good IOi

    Anyway good luck, keep workin at it
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    Default Re: Got the number... what next?

    Hey, thanks for the reply!

    Good stuff with your own texting etc too

    Adamant on the three day thing? The thing with that rule (to me) is that every one knows it. If you wait three days, it doesn't show you don't care that much because people know you're only doing it to save face, and probably means you actually care a lot more than if you'd just texted the day after.

    Is it worth introducing myself, or is that a no-no?

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Got the number... what next?

    I brought up similar points in the discussion last night, but she stayed pretty adamant, and she's up on all the pua stuff

    My strategy recently has been to send a quick hello the next morning, so they don't forget we met, etc.
    I've been having a 75% failure rate on that off the bat

    Not kidding, I get about 4 numbers a weekend, some of them really into me, and I've gotten dead air.

    I'm going with waiting 3 days, or alternatively sending them a quick message within half an hour of getting the number only with your name, ie "Jacob", that's it

    You're welcome to try today, just hasn't been working for me recently
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