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Thread: Topic Changing Over Text

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    Default Topic Changing Over Text

    Hey hoping someone can help me with this. I'll be texting a girl and it'll be going great but i'm having a tough time trying to change the topic or continue the conversation without making it seem like I'm interrogating them or without making it boring. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Topic Changing

    Think of a Bridge, takes you from A to B.

    Talk of a starting topic and run from A to B to C and D haha or as deep as you need to take it to find out what you need.

    Your going to have to figure out how to associate similar subjects to make that happen if your looking for certain information.

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    Default Re: Topic Changing

    Pick out the nouns in your conversations. Have in your mind how you want the conversation to lead to and just keep picking out nouns until you get to the topic you want to.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Topic Changing

    start saying random and funny stuff

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    Default Re: Topic Changing

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Pick out the nouns in your conversations. Have in your mind how you want the conversation to lead to and just keep picking out nouns until you get to the topic you want to.
    This works wonders. A series of sentences that mention multiple nouns can get you from where you are to where you want to go like walkimg (where steps are nouns and strides are sentences). Fun fact: when people walk they actually have both feet on the ground at the same time for an instant (running is defined as locomotion wherein only one foot is on the ground at a time). Thrilling Lol I know :P I used to run track in school until I injured my knee.

    See ^ just got us from noun convo to a "Im an athelete" dhv with the potential to stack to any number of "track meet" or "how I injured my knee" routines.
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    Default Re: Topic Changing

    With texting, you don't have to be concerned about carrying on full-fledged conversations.

    Sometimes you may have an occasion where that happens, and that's normal.... (especially in Rapid Fire Reply mode)

    But for the most part, just think of it as a means of staying in touch, while bantering & flirting with a girl.

    Try to keep the subjects/topics light, so they don't become too involved.

    But the other guys gave great examples for picking up clues to "branch out" by paying attention to the "nouns".

    OR... you can go silent for a few hours, or until the next day & then just start fresh with a brand new subject.

    Another method I use frequently is to just flat out Change the subject.
    If we're talking about some event from a day or two ago (or whatever) I'll just throw something completely different at her after a minute or two, if I feel that the interaction is getting stale.
    One example would be:
    "Hey, you know what I just discovered I REALLY like??"

    This totally sparks curiosity with women, & they instantly forget everything that was just being discussed because NOW, she NEEEDS to know what it is that I "just discovered I like"..

    Even if I don't actually have anything in mind, I'll just throw something random out there... "I like Oxygen! I never thought much about it before, but it's awesome!! "

    Of course, she thinks it's hysterical & laughs.... and probably calls me weird, crazy silly, etc..
    To which I'd respond... "Ohhh.. you have NO idea how correct you are! hahah!"

    Basically I force the texting interaction back into a playful mode, so I don't risk a stale convo, or friend zoning myself by staying in rapport too long, if this is a new girl I'm texting.



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    Default Re: Topic Changing

    Hey i m seein a lot of good points here fellas.

    I was just lookin for some text advice and this thread cut it for me. No pun lol.

    The nouns-walking thing, random stuff is always good. Just the other day me and a girl were talking about football all day, but I needed to change the topic at some point.. but was spacing out. So somehow I just said 'well its cool that we can talk about football and stuff'
    So I just bluntly stated the obvious but it also gave the idea I could talk about something else now (even tho I wouldn't have minded stayin on football lol)
    -and I didn't hint at what just left it hangin out there, and then she picked it back up for me

    That's just one way I guess, it also helps to move around don't sit there and wonder u know.. maybe something funny will happen and then Boom! New thread haha

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    Default Re: Topic Changing

    Read a nice rapport building thread by xavier the other day. Search for it because it will help u alot.

    Listen closely to what he says about eliciting emotion. Good stuff (sorry cant post link)
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