Finding out that that is as difficult as writing the first. I messaged one 9/10 twice, yup I never like to go beyond one message but she was worth the extra effort. She replied after the second message and I found the repeating problem that comes with most replies, you barely get anything to go on to go back with.
So she asked me whether I went to a certain college, I didn't but I can't just end there..... I assume the second message is the time to take something from her profile and then use that as a talking point, to then get feedback from which you can start making jokes and teasing her?
I mean what else can you say to the college question other than asking if you missed anything? It's a closed question....right?