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    Dave-o is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Second Message - How To Make It Interesting

    Finding out that that is as difficult as writing the first. I messaged one 9/10 twice, yup I never like to go beyond one message but she was worth the extra effort. She replied after the second message and I found the repeating problem that comes with most replies, you barely get anything to go on to go back with.

    So she asked me whether I went to a certain college, I didn't but I can't just end there..... I assume the second message is the time to take something from her profile and then use that as a talking point, to then get feedback from which you can start making jokes and teasing her?

    I mean what else can you say to the college question other than asking if you missed anything? It's a closed question....right?

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    Default Re: Second Message - How To Make It Interesting

    I believe your real issue is that you have terrible Opening Messages. What did you write to her? The goal of the Opening Messages is to raise her interest. A good way is to play the emotional effect.

    Make her laugh, make her interested, make her feel slightly offended etc. there are many great Threads in this Forum about great Opening Messages. Let me know if you still have trouble after reading:

    Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible" by T-Mal
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    and gunsnglory made a good tutorial. I can't find it right now though.

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