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    Default Am I playing this right (girl from Chicago)

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    ME: are you a blackhawks fan? this is a make or break if i message you again

    She was from chicago, and i lived there for a bit and i am huge fan.

    HB8: naturally being a Chicagoan... I would have to say yes. Should I also be rooting for the cubs? If you chose not to message me because of my affiliation to a specific hockey team, then you have not read my profile. Specifically, the point I made about being open minded. Obviously you have not read my profile carefully. The real question is will you be able to keep me interested with your shenanigans?

    My planned response was to poke fun of her for over analyzing the situation. Also dhv story about how i actully have been to wrigley field. And i am reading the last part correctly as her qualifying herself to me in a sense?

    I find the internet route to be rather wierd. In person is so much easier.

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    Default Re: Am I playing this right?

    She is shit testing me too with the last line as well.

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    Default Re: Am I playing this right?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tanktop View Post
    HB8
    ME: are you a blackhawks fan? this is a make or break if i message you again

    She was from chicago, and i lived there for a bit and i am huge fan.

    HB8: naturally being a Chicagoan... I would have to say yes. Should I also be rooting for the cubs? If you chose not to message me because of my affiliation to a specific hockey team, then you have not read my profile. Specifically, the point I made about being open minded. Obviously you have not read my profile carefully. The real question is will you be able to keep me interested with your shenanigans?

    My planned response was to poke fun of her for over analyzing the situation. Also dhv story about how i actully have been to wrigley field. And i am reading the last part correctly as her qualifying herself to me in a sense?

    I find the internet route to be rather wierd. In person is so much easier.
    You don't want to try qualifying yourself or apologize for your first message.
    Instead, face the challenge head-on & send her something like:

    "Touche'... well played Sassy-Pants! I can see you're well-suited for battle. Ya know, it's not everyday a guy meets a girl with that much spunk... This could become a lot more fun than two people should be allowed to have! haha!"


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    Default Re: Am I playing this right?

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    You don't want to try qualifying yourself or apologize for your first message.
    Instead, face the challenge head-on & send her something like:

    "Touche'... well played Sassy-Pants! I can see you're well-suited for battle. Ya know, it's not everyday a guy meets a girl with that much spunk... This could become a lot more fun than two people should be allowed to have! haha!"
    i like that approach very well. thank you for the insight. I never apologize either

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    Default Re: Am I playing this right?

    tmalonetn - You must be a naturally playful person because have an ease about this joking and teasing that some of us other guys lack.
    As far as Ms. Chicago goes, I'd say it's almost always a good signal if they are still talking to you, but the whole response smells like a sh!t test. From reading on these forums, I can tell you that multi-thread weaving is going to really help your online game. Smile, joke, address whatever needs to be address and then move onto another thread. You can always come back to Chicago sports later on. I try to create inside jokes w/ my texting game.

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    Default Re: Am I playing this right?

    Quote Originally Posted by GringoVerde View Post
    tmalonetn - You must be a naturally playful person because have an ease about this joking and teasing that some of us other guys lack.
    As far as Ms. Chicago goes, I'd say it's almost always a good signal if they are still talking to you, but the whole response smells like a sh!t test. From reading on these forums, I can tell you that multi-thread weaving is going to really help your online game. Smile, joke, address whatever needs to be address and then move onto another thread. You can always come back to Chicago sports later on. I try to create inside jokes w/ my texting game.
    I agree she's sh1t-testing in her reply. AND the fact that she replied at all (but especially in that way) is indicative of initial curiosity & interest. (That's good!)

    And yeah, I've always been able to tease & banter with people easily.
    I basically look at EVERYTHING as an opportunity to find humor & make a joke out of it, or to be a smarty-pants & inject something sarcastic, yet still funny.

    It just takes a little practice, and it helps when all your friends are the same way. (You end up catching on & getting good at it pretty quickly).

    One thing I've noticed though...
    Girls who issue a little bit of a challenge like that & sound intelligent, are the ones who are the most receptive to flirting, teasing, & razzing.

    They're looking for men who possess that same sassy quality; who are quick & witty, & can take a joke as well as dish one out.
    They are definitely the most fun to interact with!


    And I agree with the advice you gave too!
    Nice work!!


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