Ok guys I need your help on this one as I've never been in this situation before.
I've gone on 4 dates with this amazing girl so far and we text everyday as well. From my perspective, she appears very into me per all the texting and vibe (flirting and touching) received during the dates. On date 2 & 3 we made out for ~5 secs towards the end of each date (no tongue). Last night was date 4 and we did dinner & movie at her place. I thought this would be the perfect chance to take the physical to the next level - think again. All I could get out of her during the course of the date were 2 different times of ~5 second make out sessions (no tongue). However, the 4th date really broke open the flirting and touching barrier (essentially no more barrier for touching her or giving her a kiss exists). The game changer I think is that she broke up with a very long term boyfriend somewhat recently (2 months est.). You should know that the LT bf is out of the picture from starting up again with this girl - from what I heard from a mutual friend is that their relationship was rocky and then she moved ~3hrs away from him permanently to my neck of the woods which obviously sealed the deal to break up.
My questions for you guys:
1) Is the LT bf thing the reason she's being conservative when moving forward with physical?
2) Any advice on how to speed up the physical here or moving forward in general
Thanks guys for your help.